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I've just been feeling down. I liked someone, slept with them during the middle of the month when hypomanic which I regret because it happened too soon and I should have had respect for both our bodies. Anyway, I've tried apologising, but I feel like the whole thing is being dumped on me when it obviously takes two. This makes me feel even more shamefaced and disgusted at myself. I don't know how to live with the two extremes. I know I'm liked when generally hyper and sociable but apparently not when it turns sexual. This girl knows about my MH condition. Hm, I'm just down.
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I can so relate. I've ruined friendships, relationships and my self-respect for this very reason. You are right it does take two so don't take on more than your part ok.
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Don't be too harsh on yourself. IT did take two. But we all make mistakes.....hope your doing ok.
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It took me a very long time to realize that my hyper-sexuality was not a negative reflections of my morals or myself. Please save your self the trouble of the negative thoughts and be kind and gentle with yourself right now. Your already crashing you don't need to upset yourself more. Things happen, they can't be changed, you can try to repair them but try not to spend to much energy on them.
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I can relate, but you need to just let it go....It happened...You're human.. And you shouldn't feel bad or take all of the blame...The other person engaged in the activities and didn't stop...I agree with Miguel, this does not reflect on your morals or you as a person...You wanted it, you got it, move on...
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