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#26
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Many people stay alive for "others" Like there "kids" , or" spouses" , "friends" "pets"etc.. WHATEVER keeps a person alive is an acceptable reason.
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Agreed. Vwhatever is using depressed logic.
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I don't consider grief a selfish emotion at all. You just lost your daughter, of course you're in grief. I'd even guess you'd want to die after losing a child. A sui leaves a horrible trail of pain for the family and friends, even if you're estranged from your family, you leave them with an enormous burden of grief and pain if you take that route. I think that's why people here try to help people and avoid that gorey outcome. Peace. |
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I found out late, that everyone eventually acts in their own self interest. My family all took care of themselves. In fact they were directed to, regarding me, by mental health professionals. So, for being saddled with an illness I was exiled. You name the social entity, they all are concerned with their own survival and well being. Why should I be different? I will not hurt anyone if I can help it, but no one influences my actions unless I choose. No one can feel my pain nor play the hand I was dealt for me I gladly extend my had to anyone in need. If it comes down to you or me, well, it sucks to be you. |
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How could I not feel this way? Every day for 42 years I have had a lousy, sometimes hellish existence punctuated only by the briefest moments of happiness. Moments that only served to show me how bad my life was. Then my reward for this suffering was to be exiled. Sorry if the pain becomes too great, I will do what i must. |
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I guess I am confused .. are you looking for support ? or arguing the right to suicide ?
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I have read similar articles about the increased risk of heart conditions and metabolic syndromes. I believe some of the risk may be the result of weight gain due to meds or the sedentary lifestyle that often goes along with depression. I did watch a very interesting documentary about stress and its impact on longevity. There was a strong correlation between stress and heart/metabolic issues. Not sure about you all, but I have always been anxious, which I thought was a personal weakness. Now I see that the anxiety has been part of the bipolar disorder. Based on the fact that I have been a stress case for years, I think my ticker is at risk. |
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I started this thread looking for some insight and information on life expectancy. I was promptly given a lecture on suicide. I would hate to see what I'd get if I asked for support.
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I have three children. I dont consider myself a child abuser simply for creating life. I dont see it as a horrid world either tho. And if it came down to someone else or me, then it might be sad for me.
But do you think for a moment that your perspective might play a big role. Im not arruging your right to end your life early. Im not even gonna touch that arrgument. But from reading your posts it strikes me that your perspective might be a real culprit in the lousy hellish 42 years. Im saying it in the nicest way possible, from good intentions. |
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Maybe I am understanding your responses "incorrectly"
Many people struggle daily whether they have MI or not.. Even at my worst I can say I have never thought "lousy, sometimes hellish existence" in regards to my own life. Maybe Im one of the lucky ones. I hope the Mods add a " trigger" to this as I feel it indeed needs . Good luck with whatever you are looking for ~
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Vigodits, many people did chime in with info related to the question you posed, I'm not quite understanding why you seem stuck on one response. Darkheart appologized quickly and explained that she wasnt trying to lecture. I think that's suffice to get back to your original question?
Last edited by Anonymous32507; Aug 29, 2012 at 10:25 PM. |
#38
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Lithium is discontinued after 70.
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#39
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Vigo - you are reminding me of my teenage son when he's pissed off giving the middle finger to the world. maybe you should smoke a giant fatty and chill, water the garden, seems to work for him...
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![]() BlueInanna, I think that this is outdated. Sexual abstinence used to be recommended to heart attack survivors but I do not think that it is the case any more. The case of death from all-of-sudden sex in a very old male is a rare possibility, but in general, especially from routine sex, it does not happen. In my younger years I had a series of lovers older than my parents so I actually looked into this because I did not want a corpse in the bedroom. So enjoy your orgasms without anxiety! |
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And you I will promptly block |
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So all the answers about heart conditions , medical care, ect were irrelevent? Im extremly confused.
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I've been welcoming, reaching out to you and offering support since your first post here. But ok, I will block you as well, if I can figure out how. Good bye.
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There is a thing called "ignore list". You will want to add the OP's username to that list. Let me know if it works for you, or else I will help you more step-by-step.
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If I were you, I would promptly apologize.
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#46
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Instead of blocking left right and centre, I would log out until my claws have retracted... No, I'm not being a biatch, I just dont see the point of posting when your goal is to alienate and antagonize members who are being supportive, and I know, I know you dont recognize the support, but nobody is obligated to respond, yet many did, regardless of your insulting manner. Orrrr just carry on as is and eventually you'll have blocked the entire bp board... Just saying# Goodluck
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I don't want to be judgemental but I think someone is experiencing sentimientos de grandiosidad... We are not good enough for your elevated consciusness and smartypantyness
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wow this topic sure spiraled up....
Life expectancy- for bipolar. Study show that we are 3 times liklely to become diabetics and suffer from heartdease... thatīs just 2 examples. I blame that on the Meds. What about the immence stressors on people with bipolar and anxiety, your bloddpresure up the wall, heart racing all the time etc. I asked my pdoc about what is the most common death of a person with bipolar and the answer was not suicide. He said- lifstyle-related deseacse, overweight, diabieties and heartattack. The Meds put a lot of extra work on our liver and kidneys but I havenīt heard of anyone dying from organ failures... Back in the days Lithium could make you kidneys fail. There is so much that is not known as a cause of death.... I want to learn more about it. Take care. You are much more liklely to die from lifestyle-deseace then bipolar/suicide. |
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I can see why vig has a lonely life without friends or family. Maybe we should all block the troll?
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