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Sep 25, 2012, 10:57 PM
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Hi guys. I'm having a bad few days. As some of you know, I've had extramarital affairs that lasted a longtime. Two people very special to me. To help myself with My illness and making life better with my marriage, I've let these guys go. I know it's for the best and the only way I can move forward. Why can't I accept this?? I'm
A mess. My marriage is bad and know I must not rely on a man to fill this void that I'm having. I need to learn to love myself and I can't get there. I'm sure I drive my T crazy cuz I'm a over the place. Sure I'm sounding ridiculous. Feel so empty. I thank God for you guys |
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Sep 25, 2012, 11:09 PM
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you don't sound ridiculous to me. you made some hard choices. and another hard one is here now, do you stay in the marriage that is bad, do you try to make it better, do you leave, do you leave for some time to help you decide? this is a hard time for you i'm sorry
 i'm trying to leave a 7 yr relationship and it's horrilbe and confusing, i'm not sure i'm doing the right thing. leaving a marriage is even harder.
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Sep 25, 2012, 11:36 PM
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Therapy can and will help . Its hard work but the results can be and are life changing.
Good Luck 
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