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Oct 06, 2012, 09:27 PM
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I was taking a nap after running a few errands. She woke me up telling me she just took 200 units of regular insulin which is for my diabetes. She is not a diabetic, we both go to counselors and pdoc she has chronic depression. She wrote a suicide note and I immediately called our crisis line. Right now she is hours away at the regional psych hospital. I'm so alone wanting human company missing my wife. I'm not suicidal just lacking any real company. I been so tempted to go visit a girl I used to mess around. Uggg frustrated
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Oct 06, 2012, 09:40 PM
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Wow sorry to hear that. Hope she is doing ok and is on her way to recovery, I know it may be tempting to go hang out with another girl as being lonely sucks but just think about your wife I know you are but fight the temptation you can do it. Hang in there buds
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Oct 06, 2012, 10:47 PM
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You and ur wife are in my thoughts. I wish your wife hope, faith, recovery and wellness. I caution you to be strong and not go visit the girl from our past. Temptation from the past always pop in our minds. Be strong and ask yourself if visiting her would really help the current situation. The ball is so in your court. You can be a selfless guy that is there for his wife 100% or be "that guy" that cheated.
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Oct 06, 2012, 10:56 PM
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Your wife is so lucky to have your love. I am so sorry your are hurting over what has happened. I've been there, and put my husband in your current place. Love is a special thing and it heals so much. I wish you and your wife well, Derek.
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Oct 07, 2012, 12:03 AM
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Thanks I'm staying strong but alone my wife and I have a girlfriend in Arizona but is moving here in couple weeks. We don't know when wife will Call or come home
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Oct 07, 2012, 03:19 AM
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Sorry you're going through this, Derek, it's so scary. And good job on staying strong. Hang in there, I know the loneliness sucks but you're doing the right thing imho. I would be mad at myself later if I fooled around in your position. It's a serious time, must consider decisions carefully in a time like this. Hopefully you can talk to your wife in the morning, and I really hope she's ok.
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Oct 07, 2012, 01:21 PM
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Will say a prayer for her speedy recovery... I know you said you're staying strong, but how are you feeling amidst all this? Feel free to talk, vent or cry here, your feelngs matter too...
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Oct 07, 2012, 01:49 PM
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I understand you are feeling lonely and the need for human contact. If you were to run around behind your wifes back that would probably be something neither of you could ever forgive or forget. Its best even if she is yours and your wifes girlfriend to wait for your wife to return home. Infidelity is the worst, especially if she is in the hospital sick. Just my opinion, I know how a womans mind works.
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Oct 07, 2012, 10:58 PM
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I'm sleeping more and watching tv, not much else I can do
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Oct 07, 2012, 11:30 PM
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tv can be a good distraction. Did you talk to your wife today? Once my son was sent to a hospital 3 hours away, there aren't any adolescent behavioral health units in my county so we always get shuffled around
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Oct 08, 2012, 10:32 AM
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I hope your wife is doing better. Do stay strong. I know that if I was in the hospital and my husband went to see another girl... that would be the end, like an ultimate betrayal. You're doing a good thing by staying strong. Just remember that suicide is a symptom of the illness. It's not that she doesn't love you, it's just that the lies of the illness were too much for her at that time. At least she came to you and you got her to the hospital in time.
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Oct 08, 2012, 10:50 AM
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How are you and your wife doing? I hope your well and send you good thoughts.
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Oct 08, 2012, 07:55 PM
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So far all is quiet she hasn't been able to contact me due to long distance should be able to contact her tomorrow
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Oct 14, 2012, 01:05 PM
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Good news she got discharged on Wed and we are working on getting her some more help
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Oct 14, 2012, 01:51 PM
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Thats wonderful news. So glad to hear that. Now you can work on your life together and getting both of you better. Best wishes to both of you.
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