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Old Oct 30, 2012, 09:22 PM
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Old Oct 30, 2012, 09:38 PM
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I'm sorry you going through so much. Be kind and gentle with yourself.
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Old Oct 30, 2012, 09:45 PM
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NOT true. You are worthy!
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Duck It! maybe everybody here(at home) would just be better

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Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
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Old Oct 30, 2012, 10:15 PM
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I am really having suicidal thoughts... worst in over a yr
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Old Oct 30, 2012, 10:36 PM
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Momma,

Please know that you are wanted needed and loved. I am so sorry you have literally been hit from all sides. Are you safe? Does you husband know how your feeling? Please stay safe and reach out for help when and if you need to.. Keep posting here. PM me anytime !!
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Old Oct 30, 2012, 10:41 PM
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ty so much... tried to tell hubby how i am feeling but he got mad at me...
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Old Oct 30, 2012, 10:45 PM
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yeah that just what you need ( not ) .. I have been in the same situation. I'm sorry he reacted that way. How are you feeling now?
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Old Oct 31, 2012, 01:41 AM
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please seek help. You deserve to be better
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Duck It! maybe everybody here(at home) would just be better

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
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Old Oct 31, 2012, 07:32 AM
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I'm sure nobody's going to be better off without you. Just hang in there. You WILL survive this
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Old Oct 31, 2012, 07:46 AM
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I am seriously thinking of telling my oldest son he needs to find another home. If I am such a bad mother then y should I allow him and his wife to live 100% free under my roof! The ONLY help he provides is occassionally watching kids on my late school days, maybe fussin at the kids to do their chores- aint seen him doing any of his own except maybe doing a load of HIS OWN clothes! And on my late school days if he doesn't work he will cook dinner. (He is half way thru a culinary arts degree and *****es cause I ask him to make sloppy joes when I have been at school from 7am to 8 pm!
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Old Oct 31, 2012, 10:12 AM
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No, it's not true! They would be lost forever without you! I know this for a fact. Especially for your little ones. Leaving them would be horrible for them. Your daughter is 13 and bipolar. I was 13 and (undiagnosed) bipolar when I lost my mom. It is probably the very worst thing that could have happened to me. I lost my advocate. I lost the only person who would even remotely listen and try to understand. I lost my mom and she's never ever coming back and this year is 20 years later and I still cry for her but she never comes. And that whole "She's watching you from heaven" BS is just not good enough.

Your oldest son needs to back off! I'm sorry to say but it isn't your fault because you are in school. It just isn't. If anyone should get a new home, maybe it's him. If he's living for free now he should maybe have to get an appartment and take care of all the bills and figure out how to get enough food for him and his wife, etc. etc. Then he can see that you're trying to do something for your family to make life better.

Please stay safe.
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Old Oct 31, 2012, 09:52 PM
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Momma ,

How are you feeling today?
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Old Oct 31, 2012, 10:21 PM
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Halloween was a good boost to my morale
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Old Oct 31, 2012, 10:49 PM
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Great news !!! I bet all the costumes you made were a huge hit !
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Old Nov 01, 2012, 11:26 AM
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I'm glad your a little better today.
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