Hope

My wife and I saw the t Monday. I've wanted this for so long! It went well. My wife got some of her needs met and we were able to communicate more clearly. We both want the same thing. Tonight we went over some worksheets he had us fill out, and discussed them for a few hours. It was stressful, but also kinda fun. We were able to learn some new things about one another. After 23 years! (Just kidding. We're always learning, just not always receptive). I really feel hope. I have felt desperate and hopeless for so long. I know that my wife loves me and I love her, but I can't figure out why we've hurt one another so much recently, and over the years. I think this will greatly help us.

What I'm worried about is the depression is the same. My wife worries, or thinks, that it's her and it really isn't right now. The issues she thinks are weighing me down aren't it. I just don't like life right now. That's all. It passes. I'll be just fine.

It is exciting how immediately healing this T is for you guys!

That is very sweet, Cana, thank you for sharing. Should give hope to everybody! With some more of the therapy, I think you both will come to understanding about the depression, and it's not anybody's fault.

That, and I think we are ready to move on; one way or the other. We were both ready to leave, but neither wants of us really wants that.

I'm really happy for you! Having hope is the first step to healing, I think.

Glad your relationship is being helped.