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Dec 04, 2012, 11:15 AM
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such a sense of loss....
stuck in time and needing to move on.... knowing when I do I will lose my peace..... but I can't stay here for too long..... |
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Dec 04, 2012, 04:43 PM
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Yes, but it usually is because of an event such as a death. It also can lead to depression pretty quickly.
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Dec 04, 2012, 05:00 PM
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Oh yes, I just lost my eldest mommy eskie dog Thanksgiving morning.....the feeling of sad & tears just doesn't seem to be going away........then I have had so many bad things happen during this time of year that hearing Christmas music brings back memories of those sad & horrible things that happened. I am trying hard NOT to allow that sadness feeling that's pretty overwhelming right now turn into depression.....mostly by trying to seriously use my DBT skills that I have learned over the last 2 years......& for me, through prayer & focusing my mind in that direction in my life along with going & doing the fun things with my friends rather than sitting & moping around my farm.....but I also have to do a lot of snuggling with the 4 eskies who are still part of my life.....they make me feel really good when I just snuggle in bed with them & they fill my life with their unconditional love.
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Dec 04, 2012, 06:15 PM
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Today is my husband's b-day and tomorrow is the 20th anniversary of my mom passing. This can be very depressing time of year. I always tell my husband he is the goodness brought back to me at this time of year. To have his birthday the day before really helps me in that. So I feel sadness but not depression. And even now the sadness is not like it was before.
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Dec 04, 2012, 08:26 PM
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grief, whatever the cause, is hard.
sorry you are feeling this. ++ |
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Dec 05, 2012, 08:42 AM
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can I break it down?...."stuck and moving" thats being sad and not depressed.... so the peace is in the sadness...'without the depression?' like it's an escape.... I say it's ok to stay there ...cos what it really is..sadness?...sorrow? it's 'acceptance'...as peaceful as miserable can never achieve... 
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Dec 05, 2012, 09:02 AM
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Good one James, and I agree sadness is not depression however it can let's to depression. So be careful and easy on yourself.
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Dec 05, 2012, 09:18 AM
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