When is the last time you had fun?

I was just thinking today, when was the last time I had fun? and I could not even remember. My life is pretty much a day to day struggle and has been for a long time. When is the last time you had fun and what did you do?

Good question. Man... I am thinking. This is interesting.

Ive been hanging out with my daughter today. Last night I had some pretty awesome sex. Took some DVDs out of the library and am looking forward to watching them. I've had some fun conversations with friends lately, too.

nice question... honestly it was just about 3 years ago!!!!!! i am serious,i am depressed for last 3 years... now i am feeling bit good but still not in manic phase

Today. I have been bouncing off the wall, all day. So Im sorry to admitt it but I have had fun today.

Today actually.

Is there anything fun you could think of to do Bos? Is that you kayaking in your avatar pic? That looks fun, cute doggie too. Looks like my doggie.

Last spring/summer when I was manic. I'm afraid of mania but when I'm depressed I miss it.

Exercise is what helped me today. I was surprised how much it helped.

What's fun ?

Yep that is me and my lab. I do enjoy kyaking and taking him to the beach but I always have this underlying depression that prevents me from fully enjoying it you know?

I love to laugh. I do that on a daily basis because of my boyfriend. That is the extent of my fun. For the most part my life feels very chaotic.

Yep I know it
But I don't know how to come out of it. it just seems to have to run it's course with me and then hopefully eventually a mellow welcomed hypo when I come out the other side? I think the lithium did help me when I was in a particularly bad one before, but not something I want continuously in my body. Are you on any meds?

I honestly cannot remember.

I'm not so sure I know what it is to have fun either.

Today while singing along to Beatles songs and cleaning up maybe from actually getting out of bed for something other than work.

Yes I am on Lamictal, cymbalta, ativan, fish oil. My doc put me on abilify because I have been going through a bad depression but I had bad side effects so had to stop. It was really unfortunate because I felt my depression lift in 3 days. I feel that the medication allows me to function, work, etc. but I have always had that underlying depression so even when I am doing something I like doing I am not fully having fun.

i can't remember either, but a long time ago me thinks

fun for me has really become a thing of the past

Ive been thinking about this for a day now and couldnt come up with an answer :/

I am a firm believer in mind over matter. Yes chemicals obviously play a role in our depression but how much of a role is up to us. I think we all need to take a step back and put some positive reinforcements in. They go a long way. You mind can play tricks on you it can make you think your sick when your not. Lets take this for instance a girl at my old job had the flu and came to work. She was obviously sent home but all of a sudden my body started having these symptoms like I had the flu. I went to the doctor. I didnt have the flu. Its our minds they make us believe what it wants us to believe. It can cause many symptoms you just have to over power your mind learn what is real. I have been medication free now for months and everyone in my life says that its so great to have me back again. I am so thankful for finding my way. This may not be for everyone I just wanted to share.

Last night I had my kids stay home and had my three nephews over and my kids had a few friends over and we had a sleep over party. It always makes me happy to do something that will make others happy

I had fun a couple weeks ago, Nothing exciting. We just took kids miniature golfing and lazer tag. I like seeing my girls happy even though I struggle. Was a good day and miniature golf was pretty fun. I loved hearing them tell me how much fun they had. We don't have much money and can't take them out places a lot but its good.

I struggled with not having something I enjoyed for a very long time. I recently became a horse owner and have really enjoyed the experience. The jump for me was made in a manic phase, but in retrospect and through the usual bouts of depression, I have found this to be my saving grace.

I sat down (after the decision of course )and figured that, thankfully, I can afford it financially if I stick to my budgeting plan. The physical labor and having to go outside multiple times a day for the horse's sake whether I feel like it that day or not has exposed me to daily sun and fresh air. It's also strengthened my body without feeling like I'm taking on an exercise plan. For all my responsible work, I am rewarded with those beautifully relaxing and satisfying moments of riding.

However, I do know the underlying feeling of depression regardless of having fun. I wish I had the answer man, but I really don't. But it sounds as though you have a similar healthy hobby in kayaking. Use it for your health, even if it feels like it's not working. Some days it will sink in others it won't, but if you don't try to experience fun, it will never just present itself.

P.S. I have a yellow lab named Sadie. She is the most wonderful animal I have ever had the pleasure of owning in my life. Take time to try to see life through the eyes of your dog. Sometimes that helps me as well.

Fun?
It's been a very long time for me, but I'm convinced I will feel that again some day.

I had loads of fun this past weekend.

My gf and I went on a getaway weekend to Harrisburg, PA. She surprised me with an oversized hotel room, equipped with a King sized bed, Jacuzzi, flat screen HDTV, gas fireplace, and great view.

We went out to eat, went to visit with my parents, and most importantly, had quality alone time to celebrate Valentine's day.