[Victoria'smom]

So I was a bit paranoid as of late. I didn't believe My husband would be around when I got home. Well he's around but I guess he was/is concerned enough to talk to our friend about it who said I was delusional. I'm not sure Im upset about that.

So him and his wife were in town visiting our other friends and we were invited over. I said no because it's 45 min away, there's a bit of tension between our other friends and I haven't seen her since I threatened to divorce my husband unless he stopped talking to her and we have 3/4 of a tank for the rest of the month.

Its emberising enough that I have to see friends that I band my husband from talking to when I was in a weird mood but now I read that he told our friend that "we weren't going because I said no and he wants me to ease back into life because he's not sure whether I'm still paranoid or not."

Now I really don't want to show my face around any of them. I have to eventually see them in the next week or so. How do I get over all the embarisment?

And yes I know its not right to look through his Facebook message but...

[Crazy Hitch]

Ughhhh that sucks that you saw the FB message. Can't point any fingers. I've snooped on my husbands account once. He found out and now has his ipad on a password lock which I can't stand.

Doesn't really sound like you want to go so why should you. Got to do whats in your best interest and if it doesn't feel right now maybe give it a while.

[gardensparrow1]

Oh, that's a tough one and I know it's hard not to feel embarrassed about how you acted before. But, hopefully, your friends will be understanding of what you're going through and cut you some slack for your behavior. And maybe your husband is wise easing you back into things? Lastly, if you do really struggle with this, maybe it wouldn't hurt to talk with this friend about what you've been through and help her understand it a little. I'm not sure if this is a friendship that's really important to you or not, but if so, that might help things along. So, just some thoughts. Hope they help!

[loophole]

Originally Posted by Miguel'smom

So I was a bit paranoid as of late. I didn't believe My husband would be around when I got home. Well he's around but I guess he was/is concerned enough to talk to our friend about it who said I was delusional. I'm not sure Im upset about that.

So him and his wife were in town visiting our other friends and we were invited over. I said no because it's 45 min away, there's a bit of tension between our other friends and I haven't seen her since I threatened to divorce my husband unless he stopped talking to her and we have 3/4 of a tank for the rest of the month.

Its emberising enough that I have to see friends that I band my husband from talking to when I was in a weird mood but now I read that he told our friend that "we weren't going because I said no and he wants me to ease back into life because he's not sure whether I'm still paranoid or not."

Now I really don't want to show my face around any of them. I have to eventually see them in the next week or so. How do I get over all the embarisment?

And yes I know its not right to look through his Facebook message but...

That's classic sit a fire under my hind end type of stuff... i'd be super ticked if I was you..... sorry not helpful but I believe you got the right to see or not see those people now... and since your husband screwed up and did that he can deal with it... that's not cool at all. . I can empathize. ..

[Victoria'smom]

Given yesterdays feelings it was a good idea to ease me in. Our friends asked us to come for the weekend. I said yes.