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Old Jun 02, 2014, 09:44 AM
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Hello all, I've been off meds for about 2 months because I don't have insurance. I have been struggling to sleep and was happy to finally sleep this weekend without the help of sleep aids. I've been feeling anxious since Saturday, not sure what sparked it. I didn't miss this feeling at all.

I'm in between jobs, I may have found a job as a caregiver for a friend of a friend for her 82 year old mom. It isn't what I pictured doing, but I'm desperate for any job right now. My sisters say I need a real job with benefits and insurance. I'm indecisive, should I take job and settle for now or keep searching for something better?

I'm sure my anxiety is sparked by my stress of finding a job. How do I keep positive when I have been out of work since November. The only benefit is my therapist has continued seeing me and letting me pay her what I can. I gave in tears right now, I need reassurance that everything will be okay.
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Old Jun 02, 2014, 09:53 AM
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I hate the paralyzing feeling of anxiety.
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Old Jun 02, 2014, 10:18 AM
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Agreed, anxiety sux!
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Old Jun 02, 2014, 02:09 PM
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Do take that job & you can still be looking for a job that offers benefits while you are helping the elderly person. I am sorry you are suffering
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Old Jun 02, 2014, 02:19 PM
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Taking care of an elderly person means a lot to the person and the family. Nothing to be ashamed of. You can always look for something else when you feel more confident. And don't forget, being an awesome caregiver is a good reference, too.
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Old Jun 02, 2014, 02:45 PM
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Yeah -- I would take anything I could get until I could find something I want....I did all sorts of contract work before I found permanent position....I was also tutoring English Writing to students at local college (just went and put up a flyer offering my service -- only meeting in public places....) and doing yard work for various people (put up a craigslist ad for landscaping).

Finally I found a job that stuck...
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Old Jun 02, 2014, 03:31 PM
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Take the job and keep looking for something better.. Im glad your T is working with you .. that is a blessing .. I hope things improve for you soon
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Old Jun 02, 2014, 05:12 PM
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I would take the job for now. It's an income. And you may find that you enjoy it. There's nothing better for the soul than knowing you've made a difference.
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Old Jun 02, 2014, 05:19 PM
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IM sorry youre anxious. I just got hit with it again too! Its horrible!
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Old Jun 02, 2014, 07:46 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that you can't afford yr meds...and that yr having anxiety. Sometimes it helps to journal and write down yr thoughts. I'm glad you are able to still see yr therapist...I'm sure that's really helpful during this difficult time. I too would take that care giving job. It would be really rewarding and you could look for other work while doing it. I wish you luck. I'm sorry yr struggling. Take care of yr self.

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