[irritable4life]

How come no one can actually help.. I put my heart out here and y'all just look..never many comments..at least I learned that its not my fault..there r truly other ppl that go thru some of the same **** I do..never the same..but too much alike its like I can read some things and know I ain't alone in some of these emotional burdens that cannot be controlled..so I reached the point.. That I know it's so real but can't b fixed..and no solution..so **** it..life sucks right..goodbye..I give the **** up

[BeyondtheRainbow]

I have commented on your posts numerous times and honestly have felt like you didn't like my answers so I stopped answering. I'm sorry if I misinterpreted but I seemed to irritate you so it seemed better to step away and to deal with my own issues that might be making me behave irritatingly.

I'm sorry you feel so bad and so lonely.

[~Christina]

Many people read threads and aren't sure how to help, what to say or do? I'm sorry your not feeling that you are being helped as much as you want or need..

How can I help you ?

[raspberrytorte]

I've read your threads. I may not have commented. I don't know. Sometimes I don't know how to help, or have advice. I'm really quite bad at both of those. I hope you feel better soon.

[Victoria'smom]

I'm not posting to many threads right now. I haven't singled you out. I'm dealing with my own **** and far from positive right now. I do read however. If you would like I'll leave a message that I read or give you a hug to what I read again I'm sorry I offered you.

[Nammu]

There's lots of days I feel to inadequate to figure out what to say. Sometimes I'll start a reply and think it's not good enough and not send it. I think about half of the ones I do send are probably off the mark. It's not you, really, it's not you.

[Crazy Hitch]

I'm sorry that you're in such a dark place that you don't even feel like you are getting the support that you want right now

I think you're pretty much going to get the same standard responses here.

We are members, just like you, and we respond out of our own free will, because we are a community who are here to help one another.

If I feel that I can offer something of value, or I have personal experience with a medication that is being asked after or whatever, I will respond.

I'm sorry if you've made posts in the past that I might have read and thought that a response could do more harm than good if I really do not know the answer, so I've refrained from responding.

My silence was not me being dismissive of your feelings.

I know that you're in pain

[cloudyn808]

Sorry you feel hurt... I do care...

[lindamine]

I too am guilty of being a lurker here sometimes. I just read. I'm not well myself and sometimes I don't have anything valuable to add. I do care about everone here and am so grateful to have it here.. I'll try to make more of an effort to get more involved.

I hope you feel better. Sounds like things are rough right now. Do you want to tell us some more?

[secretgalaxy]

Guilty as charged for being a lurker as well. It's harder to respond on my phone, so lately I just read and try to remember to give a hug when I can. I'm sorry you feel bad. Maybe give us one more chance?

[hannabee]

So sorry you're feeling this way. I think I go in spurts of thinking I DO have something valuable to say and LONGER spurts of thinking nope, my input will not matter. And I too sometimes, write a response and then delete it... I think everyone here tries their best though.

[xxblackrosesxx]

Just like the other comments. Sometimes we just don't know how to help in some of the thread. That doesn't mean to say we are ignoring you, but at the same time we don't want to give you the wrong advise.

[pegasus]

Goodbye posts are not allowed .>>>>> http://forums.psychcentral.com/rules...%22-posts.html because they make people feel bad when we have done nothing wrong. If you do not like the site, you do not need to announce it, there are plenty people here that enjoy the support received here. I'm sorry you feel like this but it does make other people feel bad when it is not their fault. I wish you well.

[LettinG0]

I hope you change your mind and stick around. I think everyone has threads that get more responses than others. I, too, as well....read a lot and many, many times just don't know what to say.....but it doesn't mean I don't care....

[Fuzzybear]

I hope you reconsider and stick around

I too often write responses and delete them.

I think most people here try their best, and try to be kind

I do care

[Disorder7]

Why do so many people with borderline feel the need to threaten others, with leaving, with suicide....blah,blah??

I just found out today my mother-in-law, who has COPD, may not last long. I get on here as a distraction and the first thing I read is an attack by an unmedicated borderline/ bipolar.
You know what? If you are going to attack us, maybe you should leave.

[prettykitten]

I mostly lurk in the forums. I don't post right now because I'm so new to my diagnosis that I don't feel like I have much to say that is helpful. Honestly, I read threads so that I don't feel so alone and then I chat with people to connect with others who are struggling as well.

[fishin fool]

Don't leave. We are listening.