[RockNRolla]

A few months ago I was seeing this girl, we weren't a couple but we really hit it off and hung out a few times, kissed and hugged a lot.

I was going through a really hard time with my bipolar, I was in the middle of a mixed mood episode because I wasn't diagnosed and they put me on Zoloft which made things so much worse.

We got into an argument, I became extremely desperate and controlling and she said she needed space, I kept pushing and then we got into an argument and I said a lot of things I regret, I said she was a mistake and that I didn't understand how she could see our relationship as meaningless and just exploded.

Shortly after I was hospitalized, diagnosed with Bipolar and here I am, months later, I'm more stable, in the middle of a depressive episode but a lot better and more sane.

I guess I'm just wondering what you guys think I should do? I don't know if I should apologize, try to talk to her in person, or just move on and leave her behind. I just feel really bad and I really liked her and yeah.

I'm a lot more stable now and am definitely different, we saw each other for a month before my health started going downhill.

[Standup2me]

Do you trust her enough to tell her, basically, what you've told us?
If yes, then ask her to talk, and be brutally honest
If no, or if you have any hesitation, then move on

I would apologize and tell her what's going on. I think she would appreciate it. Just don't get your hopes up that she will take you back, if that's what you're after. Good luck!

[Permacultural]

Tell her you are sorry and move on.

[ComfortablyNumb5]

Originally Posted by Permacultural

Tell her you are sorry and move on.

Yep. Don't show up with any high expectations either. If deep down your real intentions are to win her back then it's a bad idea and you should just leave her alone. I've chased people away many of times being overbearing, and saying sorry after didn't change how they now felt about me.