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Old Apr 12, 2016, 02:17 PM
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I would get a different DR....you apparently have some sort of mental illness. Sex at your age seems normal to me...and wanting to fill voids with affection and touch is normal...but when you go to the extreme of telling a website how you feel sexually...that is not normal behavior...its attention seeking behavior and I agree with others that you may have Borderline Personality Disorder.

Get another opinion.
I wasn't doing it for attention but when your head won't stop racing and I can't even express it to my parents..the only place I can express my desires, feelings and thoughts is the internet. The internet is like a journal to me in a way. I can say what I want to an degree without trying to offend anyone. I personally don't do this for attention and I wasn't expecting so many unsupported people aka trolls on my thread because they find it funny and stupid. But at the sametime I just have to laugh it off. What I say on here is the truth. I'm not an attention seeker.
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 02:40 PM
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I would get a different DR....you apparently have some sort of mental illness. Sex at your age seems normal to me...and wanting to fill voids with affection and touch is normal...but when you go to the extreme of telling a website how you feel sexually...that is not normal behavior...its attention seeking behavior and I agree with others that you may have Borderline Personality Disorder.

Get another opinion.
I'm not sure how you see your post as supportive or helpful. "get another opinion" meaning, from whom? How does your attempt to calling her behavior as attention seeking in any way supportive, helpful, encouraging or anything at all? Seriously let's break this down. when you call someone's post an attention seeking one you are saying that most, if not all of it has one goal, that is, to actually just get attention for behavior. In what way do you seriously think that your response is based on knowing anything about the poster at all?

After all there are plenty of posts on this forum.. please read through... that are entirely based on sexual behavior. I'm not sure that calling someone out as being attention seeking because they are talking about this aspect of their behavior is valid what soever. Having sexual issues is a legitimate concern whether it be a male having trouble with something physical, or a person having issues with wanting too much of it.

Please stop and think about what you're saying before you call people out as being anything but sincere on this site, if you lack the evidence to do so. If you have the evidence of it and they are breaking any rules, I suggest you report them instead but in all honesty I find nothing in her posts that would justify that.

Or simply do not respond if you have no encouragement or support to give.
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 02:41 PM
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I'm no expert in bipolar, but it seems to me that you are, for the most part, horny.
I am pretty sure Roses is serious about her issues, I'm really not sure how making light of a person's issues is actually productive or supportive.
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 02:56 PM
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I'm sorry you are going through this. Them getting a DX wrong is far more common than getting it right. Try to focus on the areas you wish to improve and not the label. The label could change again, but at least you will still be moving forward and getting some help. And don't stick with a doctor out of loyalty. If they suck, or you don't feel they are helping, do yourself a favor and get a better one. (((Hugs)))
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 03:28 PM
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I am pretty sure Roses is serious about her issues, I'm really not sure how making light of a person's issues is actually productive or supportive.
You don't have to be sure about anything. Nor do I have to justify my actions.
She's talking isn't she?. When you are the first responder you do it your way.
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 03:56 PM
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You don't have to be sure about anything. Nor do I have to justify my actions.
She's talking isn't she?. When you are the first responder you do it your way.
When you're on a site made for support, its expected that your responses to posts would be supportive and helpful not making jokes about peoples issues. You may not think that you have to justify your actions, after all this is the internet, but believe me, no one here has free reign to say whatever they want.
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 04:03 PM
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In my head I was improving so I don't really get it? I was improving the moment I started sleeping less etc apart from kicking a hole in the wall.There were people in hospital with bpd and been in there for weeks.
Don't know if this is true where you were but hospitals I've been in different patients have different Pdocs. Maybe the one you had was one of those that look down on BPD? I don't know but it sounds devaluating to to told that.
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 04:03 PM
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I'd ignore the comment about a diagnosis and just get help for your symptoms!
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 04:05 PM
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They said hospital isn't for me. Plus they discharged me despite whilst on leave I got drunk and throwing up on the toilet then spent all day in bed. I get away with anything. I could probably tie a shoe lace around my neck and then get discharged anyway lol
They probably discharged you because you got drunk... i'm assuming as you're from England you will have been on an NHS ward rather than private. My experience of that is that there is very high demand for very few beds. They perhaps saw your drinking as a way of you not complying with treatment or failing to help yourself. I'm not meaning to sound harsh or accuse you of anything, I'm just saying how they might have seen it. But if you're still struggling, and it seems to me you are then perhaps it's worth speaking to your CPN or crisis team and seeing what they suggest. They might agree hospital is in your best interest, maybe with less leave so you don't have as much opportunity to get drunk.

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Old Apr 12, 2016, 04:09 PM
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I'm not sure how you see your post as supportive or helpful. "get another opinion" meaning, from whom? How does your attempt to calling her behavior as attention seeking in any way supportive, helpful, encouraging or anything at all? Seriously let's break this down. when you call someone's post an attention seeking one you are saying that most, if not all of it has one goal, that is, to actually just get attention for behavior. In what way do you seriously think that your response is based on knowing anything about the poster at all?

After all there are plenty of posts on this forum.. please read through... that are entirely based on sexual behavior. I'm not sure that calling someone out as being attention seeking because they are talking about this aspect of their behavior is valid what soever. Having sexual issues is a legitimate concern whether it be a male having trouble with something physical, or a person having issues with wanting too much of it.

Please stop and think about what you're saying before you call people out as being anything but sincere on this site, if you lack the evidence to do so. If you have the evidence of it and they are breaking any rules, I suggest you report them instead but in all honesty I find nothing in her posts that would justify that.

Or simply do not respond if you have no encouragement or support to give.
Who are you to judge what is supportive or not? Sometimes a person needs plain speaking or a different POV to make sense of what happened in real life. That's what this site is about, everyone agreeing or sympathizing with the op is not always helpful. The post was not intentionally unsupportive just because you took it that way. Let the op decide things like that.
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 04:55 PM
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They probably discharged you because you got drunk... i'm assuming as you're from England you will have been on an NHS ward rather than private. My experience of that is that there is very high demand for very few beds. They perhaps saw your drinking as a way of you not complying with treatment or failing to help yourself. I'm not meaning to sound harsh or accuse you of anything, I'm just saying how they might have seen it. But if you're still struggling, and it seems to me you are then perhaps it's worth speaking to your CPN or crisis team and seeing what they suggest. They might agree hospital is in your best interest, maybe with less leave so you don't have as much opportunity to get drunk.

Hope you're feeling much better soon!
The thing is there has been plenty of drunk people on the ward and I was at home not on the ward. They didn't get discharged they just got kept in longer but they wanted to get rid of me of my impulsive behaviour and mood swings not improving even though early in the morning a INFORMAL patient got very very very drunk and they didn't do anything like wtf!! If you ate drunk and informal on the ward ypu get discharged but this patient got very violent when drunk
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 05:54 PM
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Who are you to judge what is supportive or not? Sometimes a person needs plain speaking or a different POV to make sense of what happened in real life. That's what this site is about, everyone agreeing or sympathizing with the op is not always helpful. The post was not intentionally unsupportive just because you took it that way. Let the op decide things like that.
"you are horny" is not a supportive statement nor is it related to the issue at hand at all. Seriously you have to leave your thinking at the door not to understand that.
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 05:58 PM
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The thing is there has been plenty of drunk people on the ward and I was at home not on the ward. They didn't get discharged they just got kept in longer but they wanted to get rid of me of my impulsive behaviour and mood swings not improving even though early in the morning a INFORMAL patient got very very very drunk and they didn't do anything like wtf!! If you ate drunk and informal on the ward ypu get discharged but this patient got very violent when drunk
Yeah this system is ****ed... I managed to discharge myself just two hours after getting back from A&E needing stitches.. But if you need the help then I say keep pushing for it. Maybe you will be put on a different ward or something with a different doctor who will have a second and maybe better opinion on how to help
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Old Apr 12, 2016, 06:00 PM
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"you are horny" is not a supportive statement nor is it related to the issue at hand at all. Seriously you have to leave your thinking at the door not to understand that.
That's not the one you were replying to, and as I said its up to the op to decide not you. You get to decide what feedback you want or think is supportive when it's your thread.
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Old Apr 13, 2016, 07:05 AM
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I am not a doctor, but I'd say you're all crazy.

It is an encouragement, really. Be your crazy self and seek all the attention you need.

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Old Apr 13, 2016, 07:25 AM
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I am not a doctor, but some of you may only be borderline crazy.

Good for you. I look up to you.

I'm getting there. Maybe I already am.
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