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Apr 13, 2016, 10:19 PM
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He brought it up formally tonight.
 I just don't know what I'll do if that happens. On a major plus, he is going to seek first individual counseling and then possibly marriage counseling if it comes to that. I've never dreamed I would be treading these waters.
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Apr 13, 2016, 10:50 PM
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I'm so sorry
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Apr 13, 2016, 11:05 PM
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((HUGS)) I'm so sorry. Stress in a marriage is extremely hard on your mind. Make sure to take gentle care of yourself.
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Apr 13, 2016, 11:27 PM
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I'm sorry. I am glad he's going to try counseling.
I'm still praying.
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Apr 13, 2016, 11:41 PM
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Oh no. This isn't the news I wanted to hear after your last posts. I really hope counseling helps and can get you guys past this. ((Bear hugs))
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Apr 14, 2016, 05:22 AM
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I'm sorry, hopfully therapy can help. Can you talk to your mom about staying there again? Please put in for section 8 and any assistance you can get even if you're staying with your mom. Get the ball rolling on ssi, too. You deserve a stable household .
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Apr 14, 2016, 06:00 AM
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Apr 14, 2016, 06:41 AM
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Hugs, hang in there!
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Apr 14, 2016, 06:51 AM
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Apr 14, 2016, 07:00 AM
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HUGS
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Apr 14, 2016, 07:20 AM
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Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this! But hopefully the individual counseling can help him understand himself so that he can be there for you. And marriage counseling is a great idea too. I truly wish the best for you and your family so that you all are able to get through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care.
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Apr 14, 2016, 07:31 AM
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So sorry to hear about this cash. Hugs.
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Apr 14, 2016, 07:38 AM
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So, your husband brought up the unspoken thing you have been so worried about. Now it is out in the open and you get a chance to weigh in on this. Will your husband listen to your thoughts and hopes and fears? I hope you are able to begin to process this scary prospect. I'm not saying that this applies to you, but a few months ago I was out of my mind with worry that my husband would leave me if I left my well paying job. I told my daughters my fears, they reminded me that if I really thought I couldn't live without their father, then I was strongly codependent. Please put yourself first right now, eventually the rawness will wear off. I hope your family steps up to show their support for you.
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Apr 14, 2016, 03:15 PM
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Hugs! I got separated right after my Bipolar I diagnosis- my husband couldn't handle or accept it. That being said, I wouldn't wish the path of separation / divorce on anyone but it is possible to get through.
If I had to do it over again, I would have searched for someone who specializes in marriage counseling vs a general psychologist, which is what we saw a couple of years prior to our divorce. You are right on the plus side- your husband is getting individual therapy for what has been a tough time for your family. I would still seek out a marriage counselor, even if he is not ready to go. It may help you better able to assess what you need to bring into the marriage.
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Apr 14, 2016, 04:16 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear this cash. I hope therapy brings him around.
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Apr 14, 2016, 04:59 PM
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"so sorry hun" ... your just staring this process , don't give up hope , things could still work out ok .... just one day at a time ... believe in your self , you will be ok .... write any time ... Tigger ....
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Apr 14, 2016, 05:30 PM
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I'm so sorry, Cash. I hope it all works out for you and your hubby. ((((HUGS))))
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Apr 14, 2016, 05:36 PM
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hopefully the therapy will help.
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Apr 14, 2016, 09:34 PM
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***HUGS***
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Apr 16, 2016, 02:22 PM
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Thinking of you. xoxox
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Apr 16, 2016, 11:58 PM
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Thank you all so much for your support! I still have hopes. Tonight, my husband and I went on a date and my mom and dad kept my kids overnight. Your thoughts, wishes, and prayers are greatly appreciated.
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***** Every finger in the room is pointing at me I want to spit in their faces then I get afraid of what that could bring I got a bowling ball in my stomach I got a desert in my mouth Figures that my courage would choose to sell out now Tori Amos ~ Crucify Dx: Schizoaffective Disorder |
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Apr 17, 2016, 12:07 AM
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***** Every finger in the room is pointing at me I want to spit in their faces then I get afraid of what that could bring I got a bowling ball in my stomach I got a desert in my mouth Figures that my courage would choose to sell out now Tori Amos ~ Crucify Dx: Schizoaffective Disorder |
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Apr 17, 2016, 12:10 AM
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Yay for your parents!!!!!!!! Glad you had a good night.
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Apr 17, 2016, 12:29 AM
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I love that picture of you and your husband! I'm happy things are looking up.
I love date nights. Husband and I had a date afternoom yesterday. So fun. Except we went to a movie and I ate too many sprees. Tummy ache rest of the day. Lol.
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The darkest of nights is followed by the brightest of days. 😊 - anonymous The night belongs to you. 🌙- sleep token "What if I can't get up and stand tall, What if the diamond days are all gone, and Who will I be when the Empire falls? Wake up alone and I'll be forgotten." 😢 - sleep token |
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Apr 17, 2016, 11:07 PM
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Aww you and hubby are cute!!!
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