[cashart10]

This morning, my dad stopped by to bring me coffee and he helped me get my son ready and on the bus.

He told me he was going to come over when my husband wakes up to "talk" to him. Plus, he told me to call him if my husband tries to "bully me" and he will be right there. "There will be none of that," he said.

Get em' dad.

your dad sounds wonderful!

glad you have such a caring family member

Good for you!

You don't deserve to be mistreated by this man

[Nammu]

Yay dad!!!

[Victoria'smom]

Dad's are awesome.

[barbella]

Your dad sounds like a good man. I am glad he is standing up for you.

[Anrea]

Do you think your Dad talking to your husband can have a good outcome? If they are going to talk, you need to give them space. Don't hang around watching and possibly interjecting.

[cashart10]

Originally Posted by Anrea

Do you think your Dad talking to your husband can have a good outcome? If they are going to talk, you need to give them space. Don't hang around watching and possibly interjecting.

Of course we won't be around. I think, with him being SO hateful and bullying me for the last (at least) half a year and especially now, it will be just fine to make him uncomfortable. He is, right now, trying to make me feel as guilty and small, and unloved as possible. For instance, yesterday he told me that no matter how poor he is from this whole thing, it is better than living with me. He also said that he knows,when it comes to divorce, it is two sided but not this case. In this case, it is all my fault. Instead of disagreeing, I take on his MANY insults as my own, making me feel even more insecure.
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Shortly before we discussed separating he told me that making love to me was like making love to a corpse.

That is my favorite insult but the list goes on and on. He is so unbelievably harsh.

[Anrea]

Originally Posted by cashart10

Of course we won't be around. I think, with him being SO hateful and bullying me for the last (at least) half a year and especially now, it will be just fine to make him uncomfortable. He is, right now, trying to make me feel as guilty and small, and unloved as possible. For instance, yesterday he told me that no matter how poor he is from this whole thing, it is better than living with me. He also said that he knows,when it comes to divorce, it is two sided but not this case. In this case, it is all my fault. Instead of disagreeing, I take on his MANY insults as my own, making me feel even more insecure. Shortly before we discussed separating he told me that making love to me was like making love to a corpse. That is my favorite insult but the list goes on and on. He is so unbelievably harsh.

His words make me want to vomit. Hugs to you Sweety!