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Old Jun 21, 2016, 09:26 PM
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I'm sorry that happened Bipolar nurse. I was in a situation where I could have filed a lawsuit for mental distress, but like you said, when you are unwell, it isn't possible.
Thanks for this!
BipolaRNurse

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Old Jun 22, 2016, 07:50 AM
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I would advise against disclosing at work if at all possible. I got burned twice and will never again share my diagnosis with anyone who doesn't have a need to know. Employers fall into that category, and they also have offices full of lawyers who know how to get around the Americans with Disabilities Act, so don't expect the ADA to protect you.

Seriously, don't disclose unless you are very, very certain of your standing at work and believe your supervisor(s) will be sympathetic. I was a nurse and made the mistake of thinking my bosses would be more understanding because we worked in the healing arts, and boy was I wrong. Of course they couldn't fire me for being bipolar, but they easily found other ways to get rid of me. It sucked, but what could I do? Take them to court on my own, in the middle of an episode brought on by the stress of it all? It wasn't worth it.
Yeah, that's my greatest fear -- that my boss will make up BS reasons to fire me.

I'm sorry your bosses did this to you. I don't know why people in general are so intolerant of BP people. I guess they're afraid of what they don't understand, which is a shame. They should educate themselves if they're truly afraid of what they don't understand
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BipolaRNurse, Coconutzo
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Old Jun 22, 2016, 08:21 AM
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I have never disclosed and never intend to. I don't think they would fire me, but I don't want to deal with the scrutiny.
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Old Jun 22, 2016, 02:32 PM
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I would advise against disclosing at work if at all possible. I got burned twice and will never again share my diagnosis with anyone who doesn't have a need to know. Employers fall into that category, and they also have offices full of lawyers who know how to get around the Americans with Disabilities Act, so don't expect the ADA to protect you.
Wow--I was just going to post about the ADA so that's a good thing to know.
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Old Jun 22, 2016, 04:52 PM
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In stark contrast to the comment I left earlier, I outted myself to a coworker today.
Stupid mouth, always running away.
Let's see where this goes

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