[boogiesmash]

I look like crap. Sometimes looking at a woman wii make me feel sD as I have no chance of approaching her and saying something. When I see a bunch of women I get sad just cause I know I have no chance.

[raspberrytorte]

How do you know for sure you don't have a chance? Try to think more positive.

[boogiesmash]

I know. I'm. Not the hunk I used to be.

[boogiesmash]

At best I'm a 4 and that's pushing it

[raspberrytorte]

I'm sure you don't look as bad as you think you look. You're depressed, so you're being overly critical of your body. I think once you're feeling stable again you'll feel more confident about talking to women.

Boogie, some women really prefer bigger men. I always did. When I was in my late 20's I went to a work function and the guy painting my sons face must have been over 400lbs, no lie. He asked me out and I said yes. My friends son who was 19 asked me what the heck was wrong with me and if I was willing to go out with that guy, I should go out with him instead.....nobody understood why I would go out with the larger guy. I did because to me he was cute, confident and friendly. And I was a pretty cute girl in my day (not bragging or maybe I am but it was true) so please stop making excuses hun.....learn to love yourself where you are at and stop spending time building roadblocks which prevent you from obtaining what you want in life. I know it's not as simple as making excuses, it's much deeper but in the end that is all it really is....stuff you tell yourself which serves no purpose other than staying stuck. With compassion ((hugs))

[boogiesmash]

Been rejected so many times.

Most people have and you will probably be rejected more ....but finding the one will make it all worth it. Instead of looking at it as being rejected, see it as you interviewing them and them failing the interview.....their loss cause you're going to treat your girl right when you find her. (((Hugs)))

[boogiesmash]

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Millions of these interviews. Some last for a little bit other do r

Did you take Ambien again hun?

[boogiesmash]

One tjay took me hard was on the beach saw us and said beaches shouldn't allow us there. I was as muscular,but that hurt. That was over a decade

[scatterbrained04]

Elsa is right. There women that prefer guys that are heavier. I personally am more attracted to men that are a bit overweight versus men that are very skinny or average build. Just keep looking, boogie, there are lots of women that will love you just the way you are.

[Sunflower123]

Ok. You say that you aren't the hunk you used to be. I don't think you're as bad looking as you think you are. Even IF that were true, a lot of women are attracted to intelligence, sense of humor and kindness. There was a guy that I was madly in love with years ago. He could not by any stretch of the imagination be called handsome but there was a certain something about him that made him irresistible to me and many others. I know rejection hurts. I'm super sensitive to it as well but you need to learn to like yourself and keep putting yourself out there. Someone will come along. Good luck. Sending big hugs.

[boogiesmash]

I can't find women attracted to sense of humor, intelligence etc. or maybe I don't have any of it.

[wildflowerchild25]

Based on our conversations, I know that's not true. You're a great guy, and I wish you could see it. I'm so sorry you can't right now but I hope you will in the future.

[~Christina]

Once your mood is stabilized you will be able to see that Bipolar lies and will realize you are not what you think you are now