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Old Feb 16, 2018, 01:37 PM
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My meds don't help entirely, I'm talking aloud because of the stress of the breakup. How can a guy who says he loves you more than anyone before end things with you over a problem that will be resolved when I move out? I question that he ever really loved me. He claimed love at first sight, we look good together in photos (looking back it's my thought). I gave so much of myself to him, only for him to toss me aside really.
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Old Feb 16, 2018, 01:43 PM
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Puppy love? Maybe he does not understand what love is, at least not in the same way as you do. There can be other reasons too.
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Old Feb 16, 2018, 01:46 PM
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I'm sorry you're having to deal with a breakup. At least, you've loved and lost. I'm still coping with mine, and I'm actually beginning to get the hang of it, a year later. It should have happened so long ago. You're now free of whatever made this not work. You know what isn't for you. Pictures? Meh, they aren't the thousand words that are good, are they? Be ok with it eventually, you will. I think I just Yoda-ed that sentence.
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Old Feb 16, 2018, 06:10 PM
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I'm sorry you are having to deal with this, Avisa. That was pretty flaky what he did, and flaky and fickle is crazy-making (been there!) You deserve better.
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Old Feb 17, 2018, 02:28 PM
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My meds don't help entirely, I'm talking aloud because of the stress of the breakup. How can a guy who says he loves you more than anyone before end things with you over a problem that will be resolved when I move out? I question that he ever really loved me. He claimed love at first sight, we look good together in photos (looking back it's my thought). I gave so much of myself to him, only for him to toss me aside really.
I'm so sorry you are going through these emotions right now. Breakups can be incredibly painful sometimes especially when the kind of questions you are asking come up. I remember asking myself similar questions before.

There's not one answer. Maybe he thought he was in love and changed his mind. Maybe he was insincere. My feeling now would be to be fairly suspicious of anyone exclaiming love. I'd look more at what they do rather than what they say.

Talking out loud to myself is a sure sign I'm starting to go manic, but everyone is different.
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I am sorry you are going through this.
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