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Old May 22, 2018, 02:55 PM
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The deck is so stacked against me at work. The job I want has over 50 applicants so I am screwed. I am getting depressed. I have to try and document everything that has happened the last two years but I can’t bring myself to do it. My T won’t talk to me unless it is in session now. So I have no support. I probably will only get two replies here because I am so boring no one ever talks to me. I don’t know why I come here anymore.
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Old May 22, 2018, 02:57 PM
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(((((HUGS))))). I’m sorry you are having a tough time. I don’t find you boring.
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Old May 22, 2018, 03:33 PM
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Crook...post anytime!!!! How often to you see your T
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Old May 22, 2018, 03:33 PM
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Old May 22, 2018, 03:38 PM
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Wow, that's some stiff competition.

What is it you wish to document?

I don't find you boring, either. I have been away some and have not been commenting as often as I read. Please stay and post away!


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Old May 22, 2018, 03:41 PM
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It's pretty common for T's to draw boundaries when it comes to talking to patients out of session. I'd say doing so is the exception rather than the rule. When depressed I feel excessively isolated & unloved, so I understand your perspective. Keep in mind, however, that it's the depression talking. You're by no means boring...& applying for a job with 50 applicants isn't being screwed; it's just the law of averages. Good luck getting an interview, and keep posting here.
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Are all the 50 applicants internal to the org? If not you may have an advantage over some of them.

You're not boring. You've been through a lot of abuse at work.
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Old May 22, 2018, 08:00 PM
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Are all the 50 applicants internal to the org? If not you may have an advantage over some of them.


You're not boring. You've been through a lot of abuse at work.


I am not sure. But that is a lot of competition and with having those 2 bad reviews I am really worried. I need this change to happen.
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Old May 22, 2018, 08:04 PM
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Wow, that's some stiff competition.


What is it you wish to document?


I don't find you boring, either. I have been away some and have not been commenting as often as I read. Please stay and post away!




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I have to document the abuse I took. Also all the ideas I had that they ignored so I can prove I tried senior work but they were blocking me. And that my managers refused to assign me senior work. They claim that is the reason for not getting a raise not the bad reviews but it is total BS.
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Old May 22, 2018, 08:05 PM
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Crook...post anytime!!!! How often to you see your T


Twice a week.
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Old May 22, 2018, 09:58 PM
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You're not boring, I'd reply more to threads here but have been having concentration problems just trying to do it.
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I have lost the job that I want so many times. And I'm not picky. All I want is to work one hour a day, and an hour lunchtime.
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Old May 23, 2018, 10:54 AM
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I have gotten every job I have ever interviewed for. I am a perfectionist and overachiever. So these bad reviews, possibly getting fired and maybe not getting this job are all making my symptoms worse.
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