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May 24, 2018, 04:26 PM
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How stupid can I possibly be to think a guy would actually mean it when he tells me
I'm beautiful?! He was leading me on and admitted it to me just now. I'm hurt and pissed. Mostly I'm hurt.
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schizoaffective bipolar type PTSD generalized anxiety d/o haldol, prazosin, risperdal and prn klonopin and helpful cogentin Last edited by HALLIEBETH87; May 24, 2018 at 04:38 PM. |
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#2
May 24, 2018, 04:30 PM
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Oh hallie
 I’m sorry he was a jerk. Doesn’t mean you’re not beautiful. Just means he is an @sshole. Someone will see your worth.
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Of course it is happening inside your head. But why on earth should that mean that it is not real? -Albus Dumbledore That’s life. If nothing else, that is life. It’s real. Sometimes it f—-ing hurts. But it’s sort of all we have. -Garden State |
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#3
May 24, 2018, 05:01 PM
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You aren't stupid. You were being honest and he was being the dishonest one. You're worth more.
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May 24, 2018, 05:18 PM
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The tears just keep coming. Stupid atupid stupid
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May 24, 2018, 05:21 PM
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You're not stupid. You deserve so much better.
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May 24, 2018, 06:16 PM
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You are NOT stupid. He's an total azzhole! Seriously, what a jerk.
I'm so sorry he took advantage of and manipulated your feelings like that. Makes me so mad!!!! I hope that your hurt will morph more into anger over this. Not to get stuck there, but to realize how wrong he did you and that is not.your.fault. and is NO REFLECTION ON YOU. What he did ONLY reflects his bad character. Manipulators can be good at what they do. I've been in a similar situation and feel your pain. Trust me, it's not you. YOU are a beautiful person, and no amount of azzholery on his part can take that away. P.s. It's totally the MO of a manipulator to say something hurtful simply to BE hurtful. There is no truth or reality to be found there, it's all about causing pain. Yeah, it's messed up. Lots of 
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#7
May 24, 2018, 06:29 PM
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I really hate this happened to you. He is an *** and played with your feelings. Some people think it’s not a big deal to play with another persons feelings and their wrong. I do not date. I had a break up 12 years ago and I can deal with heart break. Use your coping skills. Don’t be hard on yourself
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May 24, 2018, 06:46 PM
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Don't call yourself names you don't deserve. Happens to the best of us.
Only you haven't lived long enough. It will happen again. But you will be more prepared.
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]Roses are red. Violets are blue.[ Look for the positive in the negative. PIRILON. If lemons fall from the sky, make lemonade. Unknown. Nothing stronger than habit. Victor Hugo. You are the slave of what you say, and the master of what you keep. Unknown. |
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May 24, 2018, 09:03 PM
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I can't believe I thought he was just being sweet. It's was all lies.
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May 24, 2018, 09:30 PM
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Hallie, I'm so sorry he turned out to be an ***. YOU deserve better.
 Can you do something nice for yourself like a hot bath?
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May 24, 2018, 10:42 PM
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Ha! You got him to admit that he is an a-hole.
You are smarter than he is to get him to admit to you that he is the slime of the earth. Nothing he says matters. He doesn’t matter. Just because he didn’t get what he wanted he has to try to inflict pain on you. That ######## doesn’t deserve any reaction from you. None. Just know that YOU are the one that matters, and yes, YOU are beautiful He is the ugly one. Ugly!!! He is a snake. Snakes don’t count for anything. Do we care what snakes think? No we do not. Do snakes opinions matter? No they do not. Put his face on a snake. Snake. |
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May 24, 2018, 10:49 PM
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May 24, 2018, 11:05 PM
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I let my guard down because I thought I was safe. Wall goes back up.
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May 25, 2018, 01:12 AM
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Pity the day we don't learn something new. It was his loss. That's what losers do. Lose. You will find someone new very soon that will open a little hole in your wall with good gestures and good intentions. Let him in. After some examination. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And lasts very little, just a few years. Enjoy your youth to the fullest. It also lasts little. Don't dwell in the past. He is in the past. Forward.
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]Roses are red. Violets are blue.[ Look for the positive in the negative. PIRILON. If lemons fall from the sky, make lemonade. Unknown. Nothing stronger than habit. Victor Hugo. You are the slave of what you say, and the master of what you keep. Unknown. |
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May 25, 2018, 05:41 AM
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I'm sorry he, wasn't a good person. You don't deserve that
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May 25, 2018, 10:16 AM
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Thanks guys. I'm ok. I just woke up from a horribly real feeling nightmare with PTSD stuff.
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May 25, 2018, 10:34 AM
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I’m glad your ok. Listen to some music, color, watch something funny or call up a friend or family member.
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#SpoonieStrong Spoons are a visual representation used as a unit of measure to quantify how much energy individuals with disabilities and chronic illnesses have throughout a given day. 1). Depression 2). PTSD 3). Anxiety 4). Hashimoto 5). Fibromyalgia 6). Asthma 7). Atopic dermatitis 8). Chronic Idiopathic Urticaria 9). Hereditary Angioedema (HAE-normal C-1) 10). Gluten sensitivity 11). EpiPen carrier 12). Food allergies, medication allergies and food intolerances. . 13). Alopecia Areata |
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May 25, 2018, 10:55 AM
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I have nightmares of my past sometimes too. I know the feeling and I'm sorry you had it
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May 25, 2018, 12:33 PM
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Thanks. I have them a lot but this once was awful!
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May 25, 2018, 01:29 PM
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Break out of your own headspace for a while. Do something different. I'm going to the old Capital lawn for free music tonight
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May 25, 2018, 02:09 PM
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I went out to the grocery with a friend. Watermelon was $1.99!!!!!
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May 25, 2018, 02:38 PM
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There's a thing! Watermelon is delicious
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#23
May 25, 2018, 03:04 PM
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That is so hard. I went through a lot of that.
Enjoy the watermelon! |
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May 27, 2018, 01:32 PM
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I’m so sorry. People are awful. For what it’s worth I think you seem like a beautiful person and that guy doesn’t deserve you.
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