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Old May 26, 2018, 01:35 PM
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post here what self care you've done for yourself today (and every day)

today's list is very short, but:

ordered myself a takeaway

watched a soap opera I liked for half an hour

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Old May 26, 2018, 02:36 PM
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I meant to post this in here rather than the BPD forum .. but I’ll leave it there too

I’ve been doing some “self analysis” today - my brain hasn’t been attacking me so much so far today as to make this impossible

Eating berries

Eating chicken pie

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Old May 26, 2018, 06:25 PM
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I bought a lot of stuff on eBay. Just in case I need it later.
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Old May 26, 2018, 07:10 PM
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Took a hike. Stood my ground with my girly friend who always wants me to get a makeover. I like how I look and have no desire to change. I think I look pretty. Told her that. I know she says it from a place of caring, it’s what she does for herself when she needs to feel better. But when she pressures me into it, it feels like she’s saying I’m not good enough.
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Old May 26, 2018, 09:00 PM
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I have watched Mary Ellen Copeland’s WRAP video on YouTube. I’m symptomatic and watching it always relaxes me.
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Old May 26, 2018, 10:44 PM
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I spent time with my in laws that I only see twice a year. I didn’t want to stay that long but it was better than staying in the house moping all day.
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Old May 26, 2018, 11:43 PM
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Just now selecting and prioritizing the people that I’ll allow entry. I know how it looks, I’m just being careful in populating the world.

I try to stay busy.
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Old May 27, 2018, 08:47 AM
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Enjoyed a cup of coffee on my back porch, went for a run, and did some journaling. Hubby is taking me to see the new Star Wars movie this afternoon. First time out of the house since being let out of jail Tuesday.
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Old May 27, 2018, 11:16 AM
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I’ve socialized with extended family.

I showered and brushed my teeth
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Old May 27, 2018, 11:23 AM
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Took a hike. Stood my ground with my girly friend who always wants me to get a makeover. I like how I look and have no desire to change. I think I look pretty. Told her that. I know she says it from a place of caring, it’s what she does for herself when she needs to feel better. But when she pressures me into it, it feels like she’s saying I’m not good enough.

Geez. That doesn't sound very nice. I wonder if she feels insecure and somewhere in her mind she's thinking she'll feel validated if you do what she does. Just a thought that came into my mind.
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Old May 27, 2018, 02:11 PM
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allowed myself to rant when I was angry (just write all my feelings in a document)

put on clean clothes and did laundry from yesterday

opened 2 windows in my bedroom so I wouldn't end up getting too hot (it's very hot today!)
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Old May 27, 2018, 03:52 PM
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Washed my clothes, sheets, quilt, and towels

Made a healthy dinner

Giving myself time to rest
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Old May 27, 2018, 10:19 PM
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Went to church and had a great chat with a friend.
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Old May 27, 2018, 11:46 PM
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I’m watching Grease
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Old May 28, 2018, 12:33 AM
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I’m watching Grease

That is self care! A guaranteed fun time.
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Old May 28, 2018, 03:08 PM
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Went on motorcycle ride with my hubby. It was a beautiful day.
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Old May 28, 2018, 03:14 PM
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I took a shower and had a treat of dark chocolate covered almonds.
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Old May 28, 2018, 03:24 PM
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Cooked and baked. That always makes me feel good.
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Old May 28, 2018, 04:01 PM
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I went and bought a lot of stuff in eBay, in case I need it later.
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Look for the positive in the negative. PIRILON.
If lemons fall from the sky, make lemonade. Unknown.
Nothing stronger than habit. Victor Hugo.
You are the slave of what you say,
and the master of what you keep. Unknown.
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Old May 28, 2018, 04:44 PM
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Shower as always
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Old May 28, 2018, 06:13 PM
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Took a shower and colored
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2). PTSD
3). Anxiety
4). Hashimoto
5). Fibromyalgia
6). Asthma
7). Atopic dermatitis
8). Chronic Idiopathic Urticaria
9). Hereditary Angioedema (HAE-normal C-1)
10). Gluten sensitivity
11). EpiPen carrier
12). Food allergies, medication allergies and food intolerances. .
13). Alopecia Areata
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Old May 28, 2018, 11:02 PM
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Watching another movie tonight.
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Old May 29, 2018, 07:57 AM
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Cooked and baked. That always makes me feel good.
That makes me feel good too
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Old May 29, 2018, 08:11 AM
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Going to dinner with a friend. This is good and bad. It will be my first time out that I need to resist getting a drink.
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Old May 29, 2018, 12:37 PM
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- had a cup of coffee sitting outside
- adjusted morning plans to better accommodate things that needed to get done
- came back to this forum (TBD if that's good or bad... I don't know if focusing on this too much is going to help or harm me, but I'm in a weird place mentally and not sure what to do.)
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