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Right now I feel like a failure, so here are some small personal victories:
- packed my suitcase - learned a new dinner recipe - drank water What are some of yours? |
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I like this idea; sometimes it is the small victories that really get us through unfortunately I have no small victories to list. I guess maybe I did find out what my heart condition was so I guess we can consider that a victory.
I am really proud that you have had some victories! Please don't call yourself a failure you are a wonderful person. ![]()
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You are not a failure. Just pushing yourself to focus on positives and accomplishments, of any size, is a huge accomplishment. What you listed is great!
I made a batch of Christmas cookies, with hubby's help. I enjoyed a movie at the movie theater. I did some minor clean up around the house. I took a shower. |
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not replying to my mother's abusive email today, despite thinking of a million things I could say in response to her harsh comments
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drinking apple juice for breakfast and not something fizzy as is usually the case.
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I think this is kind of a lovely idea. When I read it it occurred to me that I never stop to think of anything I have accomplished, apparently preferring to focus on what continues 2 B wrong. Or undone. Or unsatisfactory. Or......
Now let's see: I managed to talk myself out of bed and to my morning ballet class, which let me tell you took some doing! And congrats to everyone above who listed their small personal victories. I believe with all my heart that they matter, and that our efforts to focus on them matter most of all. ![]() |
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Those are great accomplishments you listed! I have a steno pad that I started using when I was coming out of my last big depression to list accomplishments. I have them numbered and dated and I glance over them when I need encouragement or motivation.
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#9
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That's a super good idea to keep them written down. I'm going to try that!
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Didn't overexercise. Feel good/bad about it, but I couldn't run too long; my daughter was not feeling well over the weekend, so I was not sure if she'd make it through school today. Because of my many falls while walking & running, I don't carry my cellphone with me. I carry a super-cracked one that luckily still plays music but has no cell service. I didn't want the school to not be able to reach me if they needed to.
Went grocery shopping for the necessities. We were out of nearly all fresh fruit & vegetables. Prepped all the fresh veggies for snacks/tossing into a salad. Washed the grapes and got all the little stem pieces out of the grapes not on the main stems. Why in the world is celery such a pain to prep? Took care of the cats. Did laundry.
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Put up the tree for the holiday.
Did laundry. Called for med refills. Picked up meds at the pharmacy. Made meals for the household. Played a few quick table games for amusement. Love to All! ![]() WC
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Cleaned out my garage.
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That can be a HUGE accomplishment!
![]() I guess you can tell I am feeling like MY garage is cluttered right now. Lol. Good for you! ![]() ![]() WC
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Wow! Anything related to attics and garages is a nightmare. Congrats for you!! It will probably be a weight off your shoulders.
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Cleaned up a storage area and organized it.
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It was a total nightmare.
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This is kind of a big victory but last week I passed a philosophy course at the local community college with an A.
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Took my brother to get his emissions tested.
Took my cat to the vet. Stopped by Costco for groceries and meds. Attended a drum circle to cap off the night. |
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I've made it to december 19th, and I still have some of my advent calendar left
lol I really did want to eat all the chocolate on december 1st! |
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#21
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It's always sooo tempting. At least it teaches you to enjoy each individual chocolate.
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I showered & washed my hair (put off shaving my legs though)
I read 2 chapters of a book. I picked up a prescription. I went to the bank. I got lunch at Starbucks with a gift card and have eaten the panini & am working on a frappucino.
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#23
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basic hygiene
learned how to spell hygiene (as I always struggled with the spelling of it) wrote a shopping list sent 2 thank you emails for christmas cards that were sent to me (yes, emily got christmas cards. they must have the wrong address) found a place in my room for my new stuffed bear (on top of my cupboard) did laundry |
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#24
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I took a shower
I opened my advent calendar |
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Took the trash and then the recycling out to the street.
Pet care. Made dinner for my family. Worked on my goals for 2019. |
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