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Old Apr 27, 2020, 03:12 PM
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I think I need some support with my ****ed upness.... as in how to not be as ****ed up

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Old Apr 27, 2020, 03:28 PM
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Old Apr 27, 2020, 03:51 PM
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You feel you are messed up somehow?
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Old Apr 27, 2020, 03:58 PM
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Old Apr 27, 2020, 04:00 PM
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I do not feel I am fundamentally messed up...
I do not like....
Sometimes......

I am not that person the abusers said I was, they were seeing their own reflection and not me.

(not about anyone on pc)
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Old Apr 27, 2020, 04:06 PM
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Old Apr 27, 2020, 04:22 PM
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I am glad you don't feel you have some type of a defect. You don't have a defect.

The things anyone else says/writes about you in a negative and/or a judgmental manner ... is their very own issue. Not yours.
I understand you are hurt and are sad and angry and are probably experiencing many more feelings.
These feelings must feel a bit overwhelming?

Do you ever journal about your feelings?

How do you cope with your feelings?

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Old Apr 27, 2020, 05:17 PM
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[QUOTE=Wild Coyote;6828515]I am glad you don't feel you have some type of a defect. You don't have a defect.

The things anyone else says/writes about you in a negative and/or a judgmental manner ... is their very own issue. Not yours.

This is what I always need to remember, about those who say/write anything about me in a negative and/or a judgmental manner, its their very own stuff... it never was mine

I sometimes journal

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Old Apr 27, 2020, 05:19 PM
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I am glad you don't feel you have some type of a defect. You don't have a defect.

The things anyone else says/writes about you in a negative and/or a judgmental manner ... is their very own issue. Not yours.
I understand you are hurt and are sad and angry and are probably experiencing many more feelings.
These feelings must feel a bit overwhelming?

Do you ever journal about your feelings?

How do you cope with your feelings?

Love ya!
Thanks, good post.

I do sometimes journal

love ya
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Old Apr 27, 2020, 05:20 PM
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Old Apr 27, 2020, 05:20 PM
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Old Apr 27, 2020, 09:18 PM
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Old Apr 28, 2020, 01:08 PM
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Old Apr 28, 2020, 04:47 PM
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Thanks everyone . Today is better than the day before

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Old Apr 28, 2020, 10:35 PM
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From a (very) old PM to me..

''Your efforts to support her despite what she is saying are truly ennobling''

(still deleting old messages, as I said before I do not want to mass delete. There are some ''gems'' in there amongst my PMs )

(not about anyone on pc)

btw I deleted a rant I made in this thread a bit earlier...
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Old May 04, 2020, 11:05 AM
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Old May 11, 2020, 03:26 PM
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I hope you are "having a ball!"
Play/fun is incredibly important to living a more balance life!

Thanks for the reminder!

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Old May 19, 2020, 05:05 PM
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Hang in there, Fuzzy one - draw on your excellent staying power.
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