Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Jun 05, 2020, 10:34 AM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
I think that my mean post was relatively “mild” considering the circumstances and how I was feeling. It was not on pc. And I was not reprimanded... it’s a pretty nasty site but I’ve been on worse . I said something about a person who ghosted me and mentioned a diagnostic label I thought she almost certainly had. I think she maybe also has “severe avoidant pd” co morbid with something else.

I feel bad for having hurt her. And it’s not because I fear retaliation, she isn’t like that. So possibly I was wrong about her ...

I think that the severe mood swings and depression I’ve been experiencing lately contributed to my “out of control” post. On the other hand, if I was actually a “mean person” I could have been a LOT meaner, and got away with it. But I get NO satisfaction from hurting someone who has unintentionally hurt me... or possibly who has even intentionally hurt me in a moment of anger.

I couldn’t understand some of her behaviours. I privately felt quite judgmental towards her. I also felt quite hurt by her. I did not share my judgmental thoughts about her with other members on the site. A lot of them are quite “paranoid” at times and a lot of harm could be done. And has been done by other members from what little I have observed there. It isn’t a healthy site. I genuinely wanted to be supportive and true. But many there, for whatever reason, could not be either of those My family of origin were not supportive or true. I try to engage with people who appreciate my heart and my true intentions.

I guess I could send her an olive branch.

“bad paws”
__________________
Hugs from:
bizi, fern46, Skeezyks, TishaBuv
Thanks for this!
bizi

advertisement
  #2  
Old Jun 05, 2020, 07:43 PM
bizi's Avatar
bizi bizi is offline
Bizi is bizi
 
Member Since: Nov 2005
Location: cajun country
Posts: 11,093
do you want to apologize?Send her a private message.you can copy and paste what you wrote here.
good luck.(((((HUGS)))))))
bizi
__________________
lamictal 2x a day
haldol 2x a day
cogentin 2x a day
klonipin , 1mg at night,
fish oil coq10
multi vit,, vit c, at noon, tumeric, caffeine
Remeron at night,
zyprexa,
requip2-4mg





Hugs from:
Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
fern46, Fuzzybear
  #3  
Old Jun 05, 2020, 07:47 PM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,637
Quote:
Originally Posted by bizi View Post
do you want to apologize?Send her a private message.you can copy and paste what you wrote here.
good luck.(((((HUGS)))))))
bizi
Thanks . Yeah I could do that. Maybe I will.
__________________
Hugs from:
fern46
Reply
Views: 291

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 10:12 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.