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Mar 18, 2021 at 04:26 PM
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Why don't I learn from my mistakes? Is it possible to learn from mistakes?
The guy I love got back in touch things have been going so well between us. Then he gas refused to video call or phone call. Remember I have no idea what he looks or sounds like. He told me at 7pm we could talk on the phone at 8:30pm so I texted him to confirm it as he said this the other night too and cancelled my call. He refused to take my call says he is shy etc complete and utter BS. I mean I got dressed up for him he wanted me in sexy lingerie which I bought for him last week. I'm such a loser |
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Mar 18, 2021 at 05:03 PM
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I don't understand why you are calling yourself a loser? I think his behavior is selfish.
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Mar 18, 2021 at 06:23 PM
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Mar 18, 2021 at 06:43 PM
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Don't let someone you have never met or talked to on the phone get you down. I know that is easy for me to say, but just love yourself and everything will end up fine. I just know it! Many hugs to you!
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Mar 18, 2021 at 06:58 PM
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I don't think you're a screw up for hooking up with a guy online. It's a pretty regular thing to do, and people online affect us just as IRL people do, after all.
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Mar 18, 2021 at 07:15 PM
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Sounds like the bloke is just a wanker!
 Don't let yourself get sucked in so easily!
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Mar 18, 2021 at 10:34 PM
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^^^^ This ^^^^
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Mar 19, 2021 at 09:11 AM
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You're not a loser. I'm going through a similar situation. I let myself get wrapped up in a guy that is unavailable to me like I would like him to be. But this happened so many times, that I feel like it gets easier with time to just let them go. I feel like I'm worthless and unlovable and will remain single forever. So I understand the pain you're going thru right now. But we'll get thru this in time.
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