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Grand Member
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I'm not sure if this is related to my bipolar, but I'm hoping someone might have some insights into what could be the cause of this, because I've been struggling with it for a long time.
The gist of it is that it's really difficult for me to absorb information verbally. In university I never used to go to lectures, because they are just a huge waste of time for me. Instead I always read books and absorb the material on my own, which I have no problems with. That wasn't really a huge issue, but of course at work meetings aren't optional, so it's much more of a problem in that context. Other people seem able to engage during meetings, they can take in the information and ask insightful questions, but for me it's just one big blur. It's as if my mind just can't function that way, for reasons I don't understand. FWIW I have no problems at all putting my thoughts into words and conveying them to other people. Nor do I have an issue understanding what people say when it's via e-mail or some other written medium. It's just that I can't absorb the spoken word. I try to get written summaries of meetings when I can so that I can go through it later, but it's not always possible. I wish I understood this part of myself better. My main dx is bipolar, but I also have schizoid/avoidant tendencies and I have another dx of depersonalisation/derealization disorder. I wonder if it might be related to that somehow. I've also wondered whether I might be on the autism spectrum (and other people have thought that about me, too) but when my psychiatrist tested me for that the results were negative. |
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Could it be the medication you’re on?
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I don't think that's it, either. I've always been able to learn very well. I have a PhD and never had problems absorbing and processing information in written form. So I have no issues learning. The only thing is that the spoken word just doesn't seem to get through into my mind. |
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I’ve found some things that sound possible:
Auditory processing disorder (APD) - NHS http://www.somersetdyslexia.co.uk/wp...aflet-2017.pdf |
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I'm like that too it's like I can't focus enough to understand, like they're talking another language. It's particularly bad when my anxiety is high. lip reading really helps as well as recording and playing it through headphones and taking notes. It use to stress me very badly. My AP's help I have SzA though. I can respond like I understand but I don't. It's why I gave up on school so many times. I tend to get really quiet when it's bad.
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I'm diagnosed as bipolar and not SzA, but on personality tests I tend to have elevated scores on schizoid and (to a lesser extent) schizotypal, which I've heard some people consider as part of a "schizophrenia spectrum," if there is such a thing. I mainly have a significant number of the "negative symptoms" of schizophrenia, like flat affect, avoiding close relationships, being solitary most of the time, unable to really enjoy things, and so on. I tend to live more "in my head" than in the real world. I wonder if this could be related to that. As to quitting school, I'm really happy that in university the lectures were optional so that I could skip them and learn in my own way. In high school classes were mandatory and it was a disaster. I can't function in any environment where I'm forced to spend large amounts of time in classrooms or interacting with other people. |
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Your OP reminds me of my husband. He's quite articulate, but when it comes to learning by listening he has tremendous difficulty. I'm absolutely sure he has ADHD, he's definitely a highly anxious person, and I have wondered if he has some autism going on.
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I've had ADHD tested as well, but I scored almost zero on that, so I'm fairly sure I don't have that. I go back and forth wondering if I might have some sort of autism even if the tests say no, but after what Miguel'smom said I think it's plausible that it's related to that. I think schizoid symptoms can come across as autistic sometimes. |
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