Planing for the future

Victoria'smom · Today at 12:59 PM

So as of a month ago I already ****ed my SSI if I'm reviewed. Even with training I doubt they'll certify me to work. Even there Drs.

BeyondtheRainbow · Today at 01:03 PM

I didn't say you were out SSI if you were reviewed. I just said you had to report the courses and they'd consider that and I think you should talk to social security so you are prepared. There is no rule that you can't take classes but they do consider it as something you can do. You have a complicated situation and that's always a consideration for them.

Victoria'smom · Today at 01:06 PM

I don't want to trigger a review.

BeyondtheRainbow · Today at 01:10 PM

I don't think you'll trigger a review but you'll have one come up eventually. Mine said I was reviewed 2 years ago. I have no memory of that but I'm sure their computers are smarter than my brain. I thought it had been more like 3-5 years. But somewhere between 18 months (that won't be you) to 7 years (probably also won't be you) you'll have a review pop up. So being prepared is good. Social security may be able to tell you when you are due for a review. I read that they could when I was freaking out the other night because I think I didn't fill my form out right.

raspberrytorte · Today at 01:14 PM

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I can use disposable dishes and a microwave it's again cost that provides that unattainable. If we buy microwaveable food we run out of EBT in less than two weeks vs 3 weeks. I've had pt, and ot my whole childhood until I went to college and some times between that. They won't approve at home pt through my insurance so that's out. I can do pre-cut bagels but I can't put anything like butter or cream cheese on them. I can and do drink smoothies.

I don't get it. A HUGE sack of potatoes is less than five dollars, rice, lentils, and carrots are cheap too. You can buy frozen veggies for less than two dollars a bag. Depending on banana size you can buy a whole bunch for less than a dollar. Disposable dishes will cost you more in the long run. It's best to just buy normal dishes and reuse them. Eat bagels plain. That's what I do (but I'm the queen of bland food. Lol).

Victoria'smom · Today at 01:16 PM

Usually my review is every 7 years. I just had a review 20 months ago because I moved states. They're currently reviewing my stuff to add my husband. I have not been asked for any information other than what they have. My therapist notes and pdoc notes say I'm in training. But they also say I'm psychotic, having trouble with daily living skills and not sleeping while doing a med change.

Victoria'smom · Today at 01:20 PM

I can't cut the potato or dress it up. I can do frozen vegetables. Maybe they have pre cut potatoes as frozen vegetables. The problem is we only get so much on EBT and it's not enough for my needs. With the SDit we would have gotten more EBT and more housing assistance but I don't have the SDit anymore.

SquarePegGuy · Today at 01:42 PM

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Well, i think you are putting the cart before the horse. I worked in Information Technology for 30 years and never made it to Project Manager. And i was the fastest and most accurate computer programmer every place i worked at. No brag, just fact. I always got the most difficult assignments, and did in one day what took others a week.-snip-

You were too valuable to waste on a management position.

Victoria'smom · Today at 01:43 PM

I understand you guys are saying there should be better services but reality is there is not. I loose much more than $1,300 a month if I do this. I loose my disability status. Which is not easy to get back. Unfortunately I have to risk it to pay for my disability. No one is going to hand me more money.

Blueberrybook · Today at 02:26 PM

Weren't you having psychotic thoughts while taking care of a toddler less than a month ago? Unless I'm mistaken & that was someone else? I'd say no, you are NOT in a stable place yet & it's crazy to start down a road that can disrupt and/or lose you benefits and stress you out. I'd say your care team is absolutely correct in their assumptions that you need to relax right now, get in a good, stable place mentally before starting down a stressful, life-altering path and making these decisions.

Victoria'smom · Today at 02:34 PM

I never said i was stable. I'm still psychotic, not keeping my meds down, not sleeping, changing meds. But that doesn't stop me from talking classes 4 hours a day.

raspberrytorte · Today at 02:37 PM

Are you on disability for your physical disability as well?

Also, what Blueberrybook said.

Victoria'smom · Today at 02:39 PM

I was originally on disability for my physical disability.. my mental disability got added later.

divine1966 · Today at 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Victoria'smom

I don't think I could get a loan either but that is an option.

can't boil because I can't lift the pan of water, or drain the water. Even a small pan. My right side is effected by cerebral palsy. So I can't lift my leg high enough for the shower. I only have use of 1 arm and can't hold things with the other.

The degrees are in preparation for the job if I can't consistently spend 4 hours a day working for at least 8 months I can't hold a job permanently. And the degree gives me access to 6 months internships @ $32/hr. If I can't do the internship then I can't do the job.

I'm good at IT. Honestly all I need for IT is to update my portfolio but the degrees are for me, imposter syndrome and internships.

The only thing I got from the DR is a letter saying what's required to be in my next apartment.

We've each taken youscience exams.

My plan takes 2 years and provides money at 22 months.

I'll call VR but it's a 3 month waiting time just for a case manager. 3 months is a long time to sit on your hands when I can be getting an education.

It’s despicable you have to wait 3 months. Here you are eligible much sooner. But honestly even if you have to wait 3 months. It’s better than not getting any vocational support

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Victoria'smom Legendary Member Since Apr 2012 Location: Earth Posts: 15,126 (SuperPoster!) 12 5,544 hugs given	Today at 12:59 PM #121 So as of a month ago I already **ed my SSI if I'm reviewed. Even with training I doubt they'll certify me to work. Even there Drs. __________________ Dx: Me- SzA** Husband- Bipolar 1 Daughter- mood disorder+ Comfortable broken and happy "So I don't know why I'm tongue tied At the wrong time when I need this."- P!nk My blog
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Victoria'smom Legendary Member Since Apr 2012 Location: Earth Posts: 15,126 (SuperPoster!) 12 5,544 hugs given	Today at 01:06 PM #123 I don't want to trigger a review. __________________ Dx: Me- SzA Husband- Bipolar 1 Daughter- mood disorder+ Comfortable broken and happy "So I don't know why I'm tongue tied At the wrong time when I need this."- P!nk My blog
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Victoria'smom Legendary Member Since Apr 2012 Location: Earth Posts: 15,126 (SuperPoster!) 12 5,544 hugs given	Today at 02:34 PM #131 I never said i was stable. I'm still psychotic, not keeping my meds down, not sleeping, changing meds. But that doesn't stop me from talking classes 4 hours a day. __________________ Dx: Me- SzA Husband- Bipolar 1 Daughter- mood disorder+ Comfortable broken and happy "So I don't know why I'm tongue tied At the wrong time when I need this."- P!nk My blog
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raspberrytorte Insert Smiley Face Member Since Mar 2015 Location: USA Posts: 6,077 9 8,022 hugs given	Today at 02:37 PM #132 Are you on disability for your physical disability as well? Also, what Blueberrybook said. __________________ The darkest of nights is followed by the brightest of days. 😊 - anonymous The night belongs to you. 🌙- sleep token "I'm scared. I'm old. I want to go home!" 😁 - anonymous
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Victoria'smom Legendary Member Since Apr 2012 Location: Earth Posts: 15,126 (SuperPoster!) 12 5,544 hugs given	Today at 02:39 PM #133 I was originally on disability for my physical disability.. my mental disability got added later. __________________ Dx: Me- SzA Husband- Bipolar 1 Daughter- mood disorder+ Comfortable broken and happy "So I don't know why I'm tongue tied At the wrong time when I need this."- P!nk My blog
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