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Old Sep 10, 2009, 07:57 AM
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I don't know what to do. My husbands sisters hate me and I don't know why. They keep telling my husband, when I'm not around, that he deserves better than me, that I'm crazy, and that everything I've told him about my childhood abuse and my abuse from my exhusbands are lies. Everything that ever happened to me has been documented in one way or another, and my father even admitted to what he did to me on a recorded tape the police have. I know I shouldn't worry about what others think, but this has caused a huge rift in my husbands family. He wants nothing more to do with them, and I feel like if I see one of them I'm gonna put a knot on their heads. It's only his two sisters. His mom and dad, and step mom and step dad and step sisters are really supportive of me, my illnesses and my alcoholism. They don't doubt me at all. One of his sisters even told me I was a crazy B(((( and that she was gonna kick my *****. I walked away, but it was really hard not to put a licken to her. What can I do? My hubby's mom is in the hospital right now, in bad shape, and so we run into each other at the hospital. His sisters try to dominate my husband and my life and tell us that we're "white trash" and that our kids deserve better every chance they have. Help.

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Old Sep 10, 2009, 10:54 AM
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Nothing quite upsets the judgemental as quiet dignity....

Just keep doing the next right thing countrygirl...try not to let the unsecurities of others spoil your day...

Your pushing forward and there will always be those who wish to see you fail....but remember that their wish is their failure...not yours...

Be polite,,smile and offer a helping hand to them whenever they need it....it is hard to be mean to kindness...

IMHO.

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