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Old Dec 10, 2009, 03:04 PM
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this is NOT my fault
so why do i want to crawl into a freakin hole and disappear for ever.
***** it
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Old Dec 10, 2009, 03:16 PM
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this is NOT my fault
so why do i want to crawl into a freakin hole and disappear for ever.
***** it
I don't know, maybe you were blamed, shamed and made to feel like it was you that was toxic as a child.

You are not toxic at all.

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Old Dec 11, 2009, 09:54 AM
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Yeah I agree with pegasus,

I was blamed and shamed, all throughout my childhood, so I often feel guilty. Guilty about the things that aren't my fault. So if that was the case with you then it makes sense why you feel this way. I'll get back to you when I finally learn not to feel guilty and blame myself for everything

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Old Dec 11, 2009, 11:10 AM
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It is so good that you know it is/was not your fault! That is something that can be very hard to feel and believe. You are absolutely right, not your fault!

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Old Dec 11, 2009, 03:35 PM
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Hello sweet one

It is not your fault and never has been......

The dark hole sounds good because it is confronting to realise that it is not your fault......and you wish to hide

As it was for me.......to realise that I had blamed myself for so long......when I didn't need to......

Would it help if I told you, this feeling is a good thing? That this horrible feeling is the start to healing? You have taken a massive step......in true realisation......and taking the power back!

You are not to blame, it was not your fault, you DID NOT ask for it.......now it is time to embrace it.......and love yourself.

Keep going babe.......you are very brave, dear one

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Old Dec 11, 2009, 06:07 PM
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Those emotions are horrible. You are growing emotionally ~ not fun to experience. You can think of yourself as that little train going uphill. "I think I can...I think I can..etc."
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