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Old Jan 13, 2011, 08:25 PM
Gulchenrouz Gulchenrouz is offline
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original question. have you asked them what they would want from you or what you would want from them in return already?
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 08:29 PM
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Was that question meant for me?

No I have not asked that since at the moment I do not have anyone to ask. The point of me asking what I did was to better understand and to hopefully learn something. At this point I really have. It has helped me understand a lot
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 08:32 PM
Gulchenrouz Gulchenrouz is offline
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so what went wrong this time? why are you not speaking to your irl friends?
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 08:36 PM
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What went wrong? Relationship ended as a result of many many things. People change, move on, grow apart, have other things in their lives that do not always allow for the old to be kept as close as before. It's not always a bad thing. Sometimes we move onto something bigger and better. Sometimes we grow and change and in time will come back together to a friendship that is stronger than ever.
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I have a dream that one day the chicken can cross the road without having his motives questioned

If Jimmy cracks corn and no one cares, why is there a song about it?

I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not. ~Kurt Cobain~

Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are. ~Kurt Cobain~

Insanity is knowing that what you're doing is completely idiotic, but still, somehow, you just can't stop it. ~Elizabeth Wurtzel~
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 08:43 PM
Gulchenrouz Gulchenrouz is offline
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just asking. agree with everything in your last post, bar last line of text, personally once its over its over move on type response for us.
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 08:47 PM
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IN a way I agree with you. However, I do think that time and people evolve. No one can know where time will send each of us. I have friends that I knew many years ago and did not speak to for years and with time and growth and whatever, we have moved in a direction towards eachother yet again. Reconnected as it were.

I think much of what I have learned will be helpful in friendships that may come along and even in friendships that are not as strong as they once were. Also, things that Ihave learned here have helped me come to terms with issues in regards to relationship issues that I did not understand.
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I have a dream that one day the chicken can cross the road without having his motives questioned

If Jimmy cracks corn and no one cares, why is there a song about it?

I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not. ~Kurt Cobain~

Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are. ~Kurt Cobain~

Insanity is knowing that what you're doing is completely idiotic, but still, somehow, you just can't stop it. ~Elizabeth Wurtzel~
Thanks for this!
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Old Jan 13, 2011, 08:54 PM
Gulchenrouz Gulchenrouz is offline
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Thanks for the eventual chat.
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