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Apr 03, 2012, 04:01 AM
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BPD really is a vicious cycle and it's pure H*** sometimes.(forgive me if the words are jammed together; I have my browser set on "high" against cookies because they have been *messing* with my computer and I have to be extremely careful with allowing cookies!)My BPD has been acting lately like a wild animal that I have to constantly hold rein on. I have been reacting so angrily and defensively lately to life issues and even when I have to be physically close to other people or deal with their nuances.And I have been so insecure. I've had to remind myself constantly that the world does not revolve around me.I have had to tell myself that people cannot always be how I want them to be.Oh, man.And I have been ever-struggling with getting my most basic needs met in the best agreeable way I can do it in.And worst of all, I hate it when I feel like someone just might find out what and who I am i.e. someone with a mental illness or worse BPD!!!!I really especially empathize with the ones on here who struggle to maintain relationships.It is so hard, I know.Billi
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Apr 04, 2012, 03:27 AM
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I will reply to myself again."hang in there, billi"
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Apr 04, 2012, 03:28 AM
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thanks for the hugs.
I wish I did not react so much to things.  I hope I can ask for things in a better way. B.
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The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! Last edited by BrokenNBeautiful; Apr 04, 2012 at 04:00 AM. |
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Apr 04, 2012, 03:49 AM
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hey ....ur not alone...dont think i can help tonite...maybe another tiem. My BPD self loathing and a bunch of oher things are making me ....well we wont go there...
AND I have the slowest connection or u would have rec'd this 10 mn ago.... all teh best. Im new here and not sure what to do. and tonite. not sure what to say, cuz I need help too. but BPD stinks, and I DO understand...msg me whenever and maybe we can help each other, if not tonite. sorry.. otherway |
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Apr 04, 2012, 03:53 AM
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