Need to vent

Today I was supose to go out with my family to a party, but my mom had such an attitude because it wasn't where she wanted to go, and it was too hot, and she was tired of dealing with my sister etc. But Ive been sick, and didn't feel like dealing with her attitude in this heat so I told them to just take me back home, now they're all, my mom, stepdad and sisters are pissed off at me, for what not wanting to be in a situation where everyone is going to take **** out on me, being around people I may not know since they paryt is really for the friends adult kids, maybe feeling left out, for being sick, etc. Idk so what do they do on the way taking me back to my grandparent, talk **** about me how they can't understand my attitude, how I turned everything into being "about me", how I ruined everything, how no one wants to take me anywhere anymore because of today, yeah like all that helps me any. And yet they say everything is all in my head, ya think. Oh well I still love my family and will be there for them no matter what.