[InfiniteSadness]

I notice its very hard to describe to someone in a couple or few sentences. Will someone enlighten me? (not sure if i even have it)

It's a very complicated disorder and it doesn't manifest in everyone in the same way. They originally based whether you had the disorder on nine traits that can be found here: http://psychcentral.com/lib/2007/sym...lity-disorder/. But once again...not everyone who has it is going to look the same.

If you think you might have it, hang out in the forum for a while. Read threads, contribute when you feel you can, and create threads when you have questions. We'll help you figure it out as best as we can, but the ultimate decision on whether you have it or not will be made by you, with or without the help of a therapist.

[cboxpalace]

The easiest most succinct way to describe it would be a pattern of unstable relationships and emotional instability.

As with most, if not all, mental illness there can be many overlapping symptoms with other mental disorders that's why you should consult a psychiatrist / psychologist for proper diagnosis so you know exactly what you have, and can treat it properly.

[shezbut]

Most disorders aren't that simple. Especially personality disorders, as personalities are typically complex. People, in general, have all sorts of traits and are usually able to refer to those differences despite their moods.

Those with borderline personality disorders, however, have a very difficult time referring back to previous moods ~ we are "in the moment". The result is emotional instability and rocky relationships.

[BrokenNBeautiful]

It took me a while to figure it out, too.

Welcome

Carol

I could not describe this in a few sentences...I'm still trying to describe it to myself in page upon journaled page...
The best thing to do is to consult a professional...but...if that's not an option just do your own research , be wary of the horrible stigmas that come along with this disorder though.

Also, if you hang out here long enough it will all begin to make sense.

Most illnesses are by definition complex and cannot be summed up quite so simply but i think cbox came pretty close - the way i describe it is; i cannot regulate my emotions or modulate my behaviour thus my moods/interpersonal effectiveness are markedly impaired. I also agree with stratocaster - definately make sure you have a professional diagnosis as this is a difficult disorder not only to get treatment for but even to discuss openly - there is lot of stigma/discrimination directed towards us. Hope ive been of some help.