I'm out

You can't even try to be nice--honest, but nice--to people around here without them freaking out on you.

If you're going to have a miserable outlook constantly, then miserable is what you're going to constantly be. I'm sorry. I cannot help you if you feel that way, and this is not my fault. Too many people tonight have been on my case.

Sorry for ranting, and I'm going to regret posting this. But I'm out. This is the only place where I felt wanted and now I don't even feel wanted here. I'm out.

...Okay then. I'd apologize but I'd just be criticized for that so.

don't leave I just got here...

I don't want either one of you to go.

I'm FINE. I'm not going anywhere, I just flipped my lid for a hot minute. It all started when someone said some s--- to me in chat that got me all pissed off. Seriously, someone I don't even know said something all ignorant and it got me all heated up and I should have just ignored it but I'm already sensitive. I'm just in a sad, angry shell this week. I'm like a rolled up hedgehog this week: I have spikes. Eff my life. But at least hedgehogs are cute. Now I just need to get un-rolled.

*sigh*

Sorry, everyone.

It's okay, keena.

I am, again, glad you reached out in chat. been there done that. It can be very interesting. lol

Carol

Ugh, every time I go on chat I get pissed off about something. The last time I was on there (before tonight) someone got on there, in S4's room, freaked out at all of us because we were all "weak and wallowing in our anxieties," and then promptly left. I hadn't been back on until tonight. This particular person was on there telling everyone how to live, basically, and talking like they were so enlightened and we were all so... not enlightened. It's like, dude, you are on PC just like the rest of us. But the problem was the name I was called that I'm not going to even say here. I thought I was over it--I don't even know the person anyway--and I was, but then I thought about it and was like, what???

I want to engage in chat because I'm bored and lonely much of the time and that's a good way to get involved with people but it's always a toss-up. That's why I tried to start my own room, and nevergoodenough was nice enough to try to join but stupid chat wouldn't let her. I waited for a half hour and had no other takers so I just got bored and left.

Anyway. Whatever. Maybe I'll try to organize something some other time.

(((misKeena))))

I am sorry that you have had a bad experience in chat, I never use the chat room apart from once, I just get so anxious in those situations, Some people just don't have any consideration for others. Hope that you're ok now

Yes, I'm okay, thank you. I just feel like, sometimes, when I'm in there one person seems to feel like they have to be the boss of the chat and I don't like that. I don't know, I was probably looking at it the wrong way. And it's past now so...whatever. Anyway.

Hey keena,

There's definitely some drama around here. I know it's frustrating, it really is. I recoiled quite a lot at first. If ever you want to make a room (you can password protect it as well) I would be thrilled to join you.

I hope that these few times (and dramatic people) have not ruined the whole experience for you.
I think some people forget this very important fact:
" It's like, dude, you are on PC just like the rest of us." LMAO, you said it keena.
Throwing some hugs your way as well.

I might make a room some other time. Maybe later tonight, but I won't password protect it; I'll see what happens.

Yeah, I can be a drama queen myself so I guess I just need to get over it. After you left, I went back to that main chat room and it was just ridiculous. I kind of made another smart-a-- comment to a certain individual regarding something silly they said to someone else anyway so I probably would have had to leave soon had I not left when I did. I need to learn to reign in my temper. I'm not good at that yet. I just don't like it when people on here consistently try to make others feel inferior.

Anyway. The end.

I know, some people can be very hard to deal with! I've gotten pretty upset at people on here, also. (and as much as I hate to admit it,, I've upset a few other people on here too) But I stll feel that, for the most part, I enjoy coming on here. And it's ok to rant and get things off your chest. Hope you have a better day today.

I can be a bit of a drama queen; some people might argue that I'm more like the queen of hearts from alice in wonderland. lol

This is the biggest problem I've run into here. It's discouraging, and like I said there are some messed up people here. I suppose that's why they give us an option to make our own rooms. I've been in the situation where I've had to leave and decided to make my own room but sat there chatting to myself lol

Condescending talk and behavior is the WORST for me, I can't stand arrogance and then my rage kicks in and I want to throw some humble pies at their gorgeous know-it-all faces.

Haha, I was about to start chatting with myself last night! I figured that I'd spend the entire day here on PC though, I had to draw the line somewhere. Although I see myself spending more entire days on PC in the future and you know what? I don't really care. There are worse things I could be doing.

I agree. I have a lot of pet peeves, probably more things irritate me than the average person, but this is probably at or near the top of the list. There is just no reason for it. I mean, who do they think they are? I'm sure I've been guilty of this. In fact, I know I have. But when people make me aware of it I'm pretty contrite, quick to correct, and I apologize if necessary.

Badgers and foxes are two of the only animals who can uncurl a hedgehog. Most animals just leave them alone. Lucky for you, I love hedgehogs!

Haha, leave it to a badger. Probably a honey badger and he just don't care, hahaha. I think I'm slowly getting myself uncurled. Finally getting my mood up. I needed the structure of work to pick me up.

Part of why I'm off chat now. Just too much drama, too easy to get attached to people, too much ignorance, depressing talk, triggering people... it's just eh, not worth it.

If you choose to go into chat, find those that you enjoy talking to and that dont' trigger or upset you. talk to them in chat privately and ignore general chat. So many times in gen. chat it gets stupid. Just my thoughts.

I'll probably just have to start doing what Maranara does and password protect my rooms. Because yeah, even with my own room it gets stupid. Although this last time was fine; I met some cool people and we had a good discussion.

That's great! I'm glad you're uncurling too.

Uncurling. But still kinda sad.

I just tried to start and I think I might agree with you. Entered a postm carefully thought out and hit enter and whambham...I'm still invisible. Nice support I must say!!

I am sorry you feel that way. It can be hard to wait for responses on here, especially when you're feeling distressed. Remember though, this is a message board, not chat, and it takes time for people to respond to you. And it's a Tuesday night; there aren't a lot of people on here on weeknights sometimes.