[greyclouds]

So looking back on today we only see things in black and white... Right?

But the so called normal people are way much more ignorant then black and white.

I have a some one I love but it's complicated.he expects me to be okay with that!!
Is that normal? No.

I've made good friends with a girl after we were both cheated by the same man.
Do people see that as normal? No.
But hey I see it as why make war when you can make peace!

And who says we have issues? I think it's the so called normal people.

[Ultra Darkness]

I made peace after war once. It felt good.

[greyclouds]

Originally Posted by Ultra Darkness

I made peace after war once. It felt good.

It does feel good normal people don't get that tho!

[greyclouds]

Originally Posted by Ultra Darkness

I made peace after war once. It felt good.

Or you being rude haha

[Ultra Darkness]

Hmm?

i used to be friends with husband's ex-gf. it was a good friendship! until she encouraged this other guy to try to break me and then-bf/now-husband up, after which i got pretty pissed and found a reason to end the friendship, haha.

it is a common occurrence in my area for girls to become friends after they've both dated the same guy. it's hardly ever for a good reason, though. so idk. but it's normal to me.

you have a complicated relationship with someone you're interested in, and he thinks you should be okay with those complications? seems pretty normal to me, but a huge red flag depending on the circumstances. i.e., if he's still playing the field while he knows you're interested in him, then from my experience that's no good. i know guys like that, and they aren't worth it, haha. but anyway...

Originally Posted by greyclouds

Or you being rude haha

i think the word you really meant to use is "sarcastic" :P

I was part of a major love triangle from 16. My boyfriend was seeing my best friend...she got pregnant first...they got married...he came back to me...we got married and had kids. We were all friends until my BPD told her off one time too many and she took her daughter and left both of us and made sure that my husband would never really get to know his daughter. That was 16 years ago....

[Landoflimbo]

I would be interested to see what the definition of a 'normal' person Or situation is!? Too many people live their lives baring grudges and thinking you should act a certain way in a certain situation. What's normal about that??

If it doesn't make them happy, so what? Its about you, no one else.

I also need to learn this

Originally Posted by Landoflimbo

I would be interested to see what the definition of a 'normal' person

There isn't such a thing. Everyone has issues of some kind. Some are worse than others, some need outside help for theirs and others don't and some spend their entire lives thinking everything is perfect to eventually come back at them. Perfect, "normal" lives only happen in books, and those are books no one will read because they are boring.