 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
 |
|
Forums Index
|
| Reply |
| Thread Tools | Display Modes |
|
|
Forums Index
|
| Reply |
| Thread Tools | Display Modes |
|
#1
Jan 21, 2014, 02:19 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
this is really weird and odd to be involved in.
my friend whom I was very intimate with at one point ...and we both showed interest in dating each other but it just never went anywhere. Well I ended up falling for him...and feeling really poorly about it. I mean its quite clear for a while that he just did not end up feeling the same...way and I still to this day even with a boyfriend that I am commited too.....still have love for this person. well, I am being asked politely to help with possible matching him up with someone. I want him happy for course, but I think my major fear from all this comes from my abandonment issues. I am afraid we are not going to be as close to each other as we are now. If he gets a GF or that the lil iside jokes we make some other girl is not gonna understand. or that I am just gonna frankly lose a frend......I know this ties fully into BPD but I don't know what do for it all.
__________________
Dx:OCD, AD/HD-C and ADD kinda both, General Anxiety Disorder, Separation Anxiety Disorder,Abandonment Anxiety, Cycothymic disorder, or mixed bipolar, Border Line Personality Disorder,Histonic Personality Disorder, Dependent Personality disorder, eating disorder ]Rx:Lamotrigine 25mg twice a day for my mood stablizer as well as I am on Escitalopram 10mg 1 daily, Buspirone 3 times daily 10mgs VT Student, CNA student, working HHA  for my father I think of you everyday
|
|
#2
Jan 21, 2014, 03:58 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Tell him to go jump in the lake. Or join an online dating service.
|
|
#3
Jan 21, 2014, 08:26 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
he actually does use online dating services he just has a tendancy of reiling on his friends cause of his social anxiety issues as well.
__________________
Dx:OCD, AD/HD-C and ADD kinda both, General Anxiety Disorder, Separation Anxiety Disorder,Abandonment Anxiety, Cycothymic disorder, or mixed bipolar, Border Line Personality Disorder,Histonic Personality Disorder, Dependent Personality disorder, eating disorder ]Rx:Lamotrigine 25mg twice a day for my mood stablizer as well as I am on Escitalopram 10mg 1 daily, Buspirone 3 times daily 10mgs VT Student, CNA student, working HHA for my father I think of you everyday
|
|
#4
Jan 21, 2014, 08:37 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
It's okay for you to decline if you're uncomfortable with it.
|
|
#5
Jan 21, 2014, 10:45 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
That seems to be a lot to ask for, if you are uncomfortable with it, you don't have to do it. Do what seems best for you.
__________________
I am not this hair, I am not this skin. I am the soul that lives within.
Prozac 40mg, Neurontin 400 mg TID, Remeron 45mg depression, anxiety, borderline, social phobia, ed nos, self injury. |
|
#6
Jan 21, 2014, 12:03 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
|
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
