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Mar 19, 2014, 07:41 AM
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So, just in case anyone might be interested in what I've been up to, I finally cut ties with the woman that I love. I have spoken to several people about this situation and everyone (except for me of course) agreed that all she was doing was toying with my emotions. I had almost been able to move on when she contacts me out of the blue to let me know she loves me but is in a new relationship with someone else. It devastated me.
So last night I messaged her. I told her that what she did to me was inappropriate, especially considering the fact that she had to have known what it would do to me. I did tell her that I will love her forever (which I will), but that it's best that we do not communicate with each other from here on out. Then I deleted her phone number, all photos I have of her, and I got rid of every picture I painted or drew for her. She is no longer a part of my life. This is the first time in my life that I have actually stopped being codependent on someone who is emotionally harmful to me. I want to say I feel free, and I kind of do, but... I do miss her. Tremendously. And I'm scared. |
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Mar 19, 2014, 08:45 AM
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Well done. Be strong
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Mar 19, 2014, 01:39 PM
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Stay strong.
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Mar 19, 2014, 03:48 PM
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Oh my gosh! You are really taking care of yr self here! That must have been the hardest thing you've ever done. You deserve do much better. How dare her call you and tell you that!? That is like she wiped her feet on you. She sounds emotionally harmful to you for sure. It still hurts tho and it's going to for a while. Just expect that. It's scarey to let go of someone that we love but you'll be much better for cutting ties. Be free and know that I feel you made the right decision.
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Mar 19, 2014, 08:35 PM
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Wow that must of been soooo hard! Youre a better person than me..
I have been co-dependant on someone who was really bad for me.. I even moved to the other end of country and he still impacts me.. So good job! Well done.. yes you will miss her severely but stay strong!!.. what we allow will continue.. Hugs:
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Mar 19, 2014, 10:12 PM
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Congratulations, it took a lot of courage to do that. We will be here to support you if her ugly tentacles try reaching you again. Hopefully she got the message
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Mar 20, 2014, 10:26 AM
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I don't know the full story but sounds like you made the right decision. Stay strong!
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