Ex hub

I am not sure if my ex hub is BPD or not, but if he is, can I ask a question?

We have 2 kids and I don't mind talking to him with regards to our children.

But... He has remarried, yet still calls me many times a day.

I have told him to stop but he doesn't. I ignore his phone calls for the most part. Any suggestions?

Does he have abandonment issues?

Sorry if this is the wrong forum.

Hi!

It really could be many reasons while he calls . not rulling out BPD , that's possible . but could be other reasons like maybe he still loves you or he is very lonily or he regrets not being with you. Its really not my place to say he has BPD or not.

Have you thought about asking him why he calls so much ?

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He says he is sorry but still continues to do so. And yes, he probably does love me in his way. But we have been divorced for 13 years.

I think he is bpd/npd or something. He has entitlement issues and is possessive of me. I think he sees me as his "property" Meaning I still belong to him in a way.

Thanks for responding.

Wow after 13 years he still calling you all the time . it must be difficult because you have to stay in contact because of the children . I think you should tell him that your only willing to talk to him about the children and if he's not doing that then I personally would hang the phone up and maybe tell him he can only text you in future regarding the children and no more phone calls . yeah if definitely doesn't seem normal after 13 years divorce .
I wish you the best of luck

Sophie

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He doesn't have a cell phone. lol He calls me, i ignore him. He calls the house phone, which I screen using an answering machine. He calls my son, who ignores him. Our sons are teens. He doesn't like to lose his place in our lives.

He has a wife and a step daughter.

He does not respect boundaries very well.