[Ms.Lizette]

I hate when I feel rejected just because my BF is busy and entertained by himself. Like now he is looking for a new job and spends hours writing application letters and I can't take it. I don't know what to do by myself, all I think is him and his possible new job and I feel I am nothing to him just because he kind of ignored me for a few hours.
I hate this Feel so pathetic :-(

[Lonlin3zz]

Originally Posted by Ms.Lizette

I hate when I feel rejected just because my BF is busy and entertained by himself. Like now he is looking for a new job and spends hours writing application letters and I can't take it. I don't know what to do by myself, all I think is him and his possible new job and I feel I am nothing to him just because he kind of ignored me for a few hours.
I hate this Feel so pathetic :-(

I'm sure deep down, he still cares enough for you as much as he needs that job to survive feeding both of ya.

You're such a caring a person to take notice of what he do. So Sweet

[Unrigged64072835]

It's hard to ask for attention when others are doing something important. Maybe talk to him early and schedule some cuddle time.

[shezbut]

Ms.Lizette,

I can relate. Those times are tough, I know.

Perhaps you can entertain yourself for a little while on the computer, then make dinner plans with him & leave to pick up meal ingredients. I think that getting away from him, distracting yourself with activity and other people, just might work for a couple of hours. When you get home, he will hopefully be ready to spend more time and attention on you for a while. If he then goes back into job hunting, take a walk or do yoga followed by a shower or relaxing bath (listening to your favorite music!). This time can be made especially for you. Try looking at it that way.

((((hugs)))))