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Jul 18, 2017, 02:09 AM
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I'm not going to beat myself up for being emotionally ill. It's not my fault. It's a medical condition.
Ok, I can't do loving, married relationship. I just can't do some other things, too. Or I can only do some things in small amounts. Now what? I'm stuck in a living hell with a husband. I'm coping every day and just trying to be pleasant or get away from him. No more fight in me. I know it's pointless. Just keep breathing I guess.
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Jul 18, 2017, 02:43 PM
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It's so hard when you feel like all you can do is just keep breathing. I'm sorry you're not happy with the situation you're in, does anything feel good or better than this for you?
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Jul 19, 2017, 07:40 AM
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It's just the sexual/ intimacy component of my marriage. Otherwise, I'm pretty neurotic, but I'm functioning, have friends, work, take care of life, have a great life.
I'm not sure it it's an emotional disorder that caused the intimacy problem or if it's the other way around.
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Jul 19, 2017, 08:31 AM
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Jul 19, 2017, 08:40 AM
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But intimacy takes two so perhaps part of the problem is on him. Not that I would want you to discuss him here but I think you have had initimate relationships in the past so this is a bad pattern that developed between the two of you. It does not define everything about you. It does not mean that you can't have these thing someday. (Though I know the thought that you may not experience it again is one of the major reasons for your depression.)
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Jul 19, 2017, 10:56 PM
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I know in DBT therapy two things that helped me was leaving or distracting yourself if leaving is not an option then try to distract yourself with things you like doing.
-Best of wishes take refuge in your path to recovery.
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