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Old Feb 11, 2020, 07:59 PM
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Old Feb 11, 2020, 08:24 PM
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Are you being stalked?
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Old Feb 12, 2020, 02:36 PM
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Old Feb 12, 2020, 02:54 PM
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Boredom, novelty seeking and obsession.

It depends on the stalker. They're a diverse crowd.
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Old Feb 12, 2020, 06:17 PM
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Old Feb 12, 2020, 06:26 PM
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Old Feb 12, 2020, 07:29 PM
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Thinking of you, Fuzzy. Stalking is awful!
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Old Feb 13, 2020, 04:39 AM
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Honestly? Because there are some sick f**ks out there.
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Old Feb 13, 2020, 08:12 AM
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Power and control.
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Old Feb 13, 2020, 11:13 AM
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Power and control.
I mean, not really. I've no doubt that there are stalkers whose primary motivation is control. And on a long enough timeline, it usually ends up being about control. But the initial motivation seems to be varying degrees of curiosity/obsession, impulsivity and disregard for boundaries.

I normally don't have any intention to use information I've obtained to exert power over people, not unless they angered me or I believe they could be dangerous. For the most part, I'm just curious about them and don't care enough about their boundaries to back off.

I'm more self-aware nowadays, but it's a conscious effort to give people space.
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Old Feb 14, 2020, 02:48 PM
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Sometimes you represent something to them they feel they need from you, obsessively. They desperately want your love and won’t take no for an answer. They can’t handle that you rejected them and they are determined to get your acceptance, even though they know they totally crossed the line and made you fear them.
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Old Feb 14, 2020, 08:24 PM
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I agree with TrishBuv. It's about love. Stalkers who boast about their powers to manipulate are fooling no-one.
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Old Feb 16, 2020, 11:09 PM
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I dont know why they do it, But I was stalked at one time in my life and it was a pretty scary thing, This person was completely obsessed with me and I have PTSD still from it, He even tried kidnapping me, He was Psyco to say the least, He watched me everywhere, I had no privacy, There are laws in the United states where stalking is a felony and people go to prison and they should people are murdered by stalkers every day
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