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Old Jan 19, 2023, 10:41 AM
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My inner child loves coffee, & I gave her some this morning, & now she wants some more, & I am going to let her have some more. Coffee is really nice. Aren't you, Coffee. Yes, you are.
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Old Jan 22, 2023, 05:22 PM
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I watch some movies and I validate my feelings I had to my inner child
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Feb 25, 2023, 06:09 PM
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I made a snow cat in the front yard. The snow is the perfect consistency to build with. My family member took a picture of it.
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Old Feb 26, 2023, 09:53 AM
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I began validating myself :sadhug whenever someone said something that is meant to hurt my feelings :hug. That was something no one ever did for me growing up
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Feb 28, 2023, 01:24 PM
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For my inner child, I did the following:
I cooked sushi, watched a movie I had been wanting to watch for a long time.
I even managed to distract myself from my problems a bit and enjoy the sushi)
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Old Feb 28, 2023, 02:05 PM
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good articel
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Old Mar 01, 2023, 11:49 AM
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I began validating myself :sadhug whenever someone said something that is meant to hurt my feelings :hug. That was something no one ever did for me growing up
I didn’t get that either. My parents are long gone now so don’t know how much harm was done to me by that but they’d deny it anyway. Even as an adult I crave validation.

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what did you do today for your inner child?

Hmmm....looks like some good tips in here.


what did you do today for your inner child?

"Okay, enough photos. I'm a very BUSY Business Kitty, so make an appointment next time."
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Old Mar 01, 2023, 10:30 PM
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I didn’t get that either. My parents are long gone now so don’t know how much harm was done to me by that but they’d deny it anyway. Even as an adult I crave validation.

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I do to it why I am so codependent.
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Apr 02, 2023, 09:01 AM
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I’ve been hugging my teddy bear when I wake up in the morning and before bed at night.
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Old Apr 05, 2023, 11:24 AM
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I apologized for the mistake and bad treatment :sadhug my inner child received
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Apr 07, 2023, 02:11 AM
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I ate a Kinder Bueno.
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Old Apr 07, 2023, 10:48 AM
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I been taking responsibility :hug for all the mistakes I have made
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Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch.

Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Apr 07, 2023, 12:08 PM
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I came on here. I also wondered why people have to try and tell other ppl what they should accept and expect of life. If it weren't for the people who believed we deserved better - where would we be? Sorry,not necessarily inner child stuff, but ppl have this 'this is the way it is' mentality, built off their own limited narcissistic vision. Maybe the inner child is hopeful and sees what the adult can't.
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Old Apr 07, 2023, 01:04 PM
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I came on here. I also wondered why people have to try and tell other ppl what they should accept and expect of life. If it weren't for the people who believed we deserved better - where would we be? Sorry,not necessarily inner child stuff, but ppl have this 'this is the way it is' mentality, built off their own limited narcissistic vision. Maybe the inner child is hopeful and sees what the adult can't.
That is SO TRUE. I hate the word "should" and a lot of people tell me I "should" or "shouldn't" this and that. The word has a negative connotation for sure. A former friend used to say stuff like "You just have to think_______" or "You have to see it this way." No, I don't. And who the eff is she anyway??!!!

Children are more perceptive than adults and I agree they see things that adults don't.
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what did you do today for your inner child?

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what did you do today for your inner child?

"Okay, enough photos. I'm a very BUSY Business Kitty, so make an appointment next time."
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Old Apr 07, 2023, 01:28 PM
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I complimented myself on positively reframing a couple of situations happening to me right now, that are beyond my control. I decided not to let "worry" rob me of feeling happy in general.
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Old Apr 08, 2023, 04:17 AM
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I bought and wore sticker-earrings.
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Old Apr 11, 2023, 06:21 AM
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spoke in what I thought was quite a funny voice

it must have been funny, because I couldn't get through many sentences without laughing
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Old Apr 12, 2023, 02:59 PM
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I wrote a letter to my :grouphug inner child
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Apr 15, 2023, 08:51 AM
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I entered a giveaway for a free coloring book.
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Old Apr 17, 2023, 06:20 PM
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I bought a present for myself
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Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch.

Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old May 21, 2023, 07:39 PM
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I validate my inner child feelings
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Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch.

Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old May 24, 2023, 08:54 AM
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I created a board on Pinterest for my inner child. It’s inspiring me.
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Old May 25, 2023, 07:37 AM
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I bought some clothes for my inner child
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Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch.

Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jun 04, 2023, 01:52 PM
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I ran through a sprinkler and ate a lime otter pop.
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Old Jun 05, 2023, 02:45 PM
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I ate a blue raspberry otter pop at lunch. Now if anyone else gives me crap today, I can handle it like a mature adult and stick my blue tongue out at them. Not really, but it cheers me up to think about.
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