[annxo]

This IS a website for mental support right? Forgive me if I'm wrong....

I've found that on some of my threads there's more people bringing me down rather than supporting me.

If you don't have anything supportive to say, then don't say anything at all because you're not helping anyone.

[(JD)]

If the post is truly not supportive, then report it by clicking on the on the lower left column and asking the mod to look at it.

Sometimes they are abusive, sometimes we're too sensitive (but still, right?)

You'll find your niche soon, I trust.

I'm sorry to hear that you don't feel supported. :/ I hope that you didn't find my reply to your recent thread to be unsupportive, I did not mean it in any negative way! Sending you hugs, if that's OK.

I have not seen any of your other threads, but if I do I'll be sure to leave a supportive comment.

the idea of this forum is for people to support each other, and i'm sorry you don't feel it's working for you at the moment

[reb569]

I'm sorry you feel this way. I saw one of your posts that went unanswered and was going to post, but was stressed out from work and just couldn't handle posting at the time. I did post on it this morning.

This really is a supportive place, hopefully you will find responses to be more helpful in the future.

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by (JD)

If the post is truly not supportive, then report it by clicking on the on the lower left column and asking the mod to look at it.

Sometimes they are abusive, sometimes we're too sensitive (but still, right?)

You'll find your niche soon, I trust.

Thinking of you, I suck with words so sometimes send hugs only

I haven't read your other threads yet... I do think people here try to be supportive and I'm sorry you haven't felt supported

Hope things improve for you, this is a supportive place

[divine1966]

The only threads from you I saw were about controlling, possibly cheating man, who made you quit your job and makes you buy him stuff and you were asking if he is good potential partner or not. People mostly advised you that you deserve better, but I haven't seen anyone being unsupportive. Maybe you had other threads but I haven't seen them .

[jacky8807]

Actually yeah ......a lot of ppl came down on her super hard for checking his phone without really listening to her about anything else. I have checked phones of past boyfriends and hey when you are right you are right. If you suspect something sometimes you need proof. I had a friend who suspected an affair but couldn't be sure....until she checked the phone records. He was having a long *** affair. Same thing happened to my cousin. And they were both ppl who would say "not my husband I "TRUST" him.
blind trust is dumb in my opinion
but you know what they say about opinions.....

anywAys op it is a supportive place but when you ask for opinions you will get just that. Good luck!

Annxo, I'm sorry that people are writing things that are unsupportive and hurtful to your posts. They're rude. I think sometimes it gets a little...I have seen people get on high horses in the relationships forum before. People think they know better, but don't say it in very eloquent (or kind) ways. But thats no excuse to talk to anyone in that way, and after reading your threads there about possibly having a controlling bf, the phone thing (and the cheating), and some of the responses, I understand why you are upset. I am glad you said something here.