[BonsaiGuy]

So, A big part of why I am on this forum all together is because I have noticed a severe lack of personal relationships in my life. Personal connection, conversation, relating to others... All of these things are strongly lacking in my life.

So to my question. Keeping the above in mind, I like to respond to most of the posts in a thread that I have created. I quote the author and then share my thoughts... I like this, but it does take up a lot of space.

I am very self-conscious even in a digital environment. Am I doing something wrong? The last thing I want to do is annoy.

Originally Posted by BonsaiGuy

So, A big part of why I am on this forum all together is because I have noticed a severe lack of personal relationships in my life. Personal connection, conversation, relating to others... All of these things are strongly lacking in my life.

So to my question. Keeping the above in mind, I like to respond to most of the posts in a thread that I have created. I quote the author and then share my thoughts... I like this, but it does take up a lot of space.

I am very self-conscious even in a digital environment. Am I doing something wrong? The last thing I want to do is annoy.

To me, your posts come across as thoughtful and helpful. I don't think there's any limit on participation here on PC. If a poster wanted to, they could block you from their view. Though I'm not suggesting they need to do so. Don't be so hard on yourself BonsaiGuy

Btw, your little bluebird pic is marvelous! Makes me smile.

[BonsaiGuy]

Originally Posted by HopefullyLost1211

Btw, your little bluebird pic is marvelous! Makes me smile.

Thank you so much for your responses. I really appreciate that. You made me feel a lot better, friend.

I like him too

you're fine.

that's why this forum exists- to talk and to comment.

plus it's wonderful to have a new regular face around the site. I for one am greatful that you post here

sometimes it's not even about how many people reply

it's about how they reply and what they say.

I know I'd rather one person flooding my thread with useful replies than I would many people with not much to say

[sarahsweets]

Originally Posted by BonsaiGuy

So, A big part of why I am on this forum all together is because I have noticed a severe lack of personal relationships in my life. Personal connection, conversation, relating to others... All of these things are strongly lacking in my life.

So to my question. Keeping the above in mind, I like to respond to most of the posts in a thread that I have created. I quote the author and then share my thoughts... I like this, but it does take up a lot of space.

I am very self-conscious even in a digital environment. Am I doing something wrong? The last thing I want to do is annoy.

I do not think there is a single issue with what you post or how much or how often.

You're allowed to post as much as you want

[BonsaiGuy]

I really appreciate these responses. Thank you so much for your support everyone!

[Skeezyks]

The more you post, & reply to other members' posts, the more recognized you will become. My impression is that at least some new members post a couple of times, & if they don't get a lot of replies, they leave. One just has to dive in & "make the fur fly", as the saying goes! So just keep doing what you're doing!

[Crazy Hitch]

I love it when the original poster responds to my reply! It makes me feel heard

I think you’re doing just fine. I worry about these things also by the way. Glad I’m not the only one. It’s good to have you here on PC. 😃

[Guiness187055]

Keep posting away

[MickeyCheeky]

Don't worry, BonsaiGuy! Keep posting as much as you want. If any problem shows up, I'm sure the admins and mods will let you know. But I'm sure you won't have any problems here. I'm glad you're enjoying PC. Sending many hugs to you

[possum220]

Being a useful contributor is a good thing. I like to give and get replies. We all have something we can contribute to each other.

I am also a fan of your blue bird.

[sarahsweets]

Hey if you're a thread flooder than I am a thread wader!

[winter loneliness]

Seems polite to me. Go for it.

[BonsaiGuy]

Originally Posted by sarahsweets

Hey if you're a thread flooder than I am a thread wader!

This made my morning, sarahsweets! Thsnk you.

[BonsaiGuy]

Originally Posted by winter loneliness

Seems polite to me. Go for it.

"Never gonna keep me down" love that signature. Thanks for your reply

[eskielover]

I have been here for ages & most of the time I do exactly what you describe.....quote then reply. I do it mostly if it is a comment that seems like I would respond IRL. Otherwise I thank & hug to acknowledge that I have read it & appreciate their response.

I do that of FB too. I respond to most replies people make personally if it seems like a reply would be appropriate if I were speaking to them in person.

[sarahsweets]

Originally Posted by BonsaiGuy

"Never gonna keep me down" love that signature. Thanks for your reply

[healingme4me]

If you are a thread flooder, you're a polite one at that and engaging as well

[BonsaiGuy]

Originally Posted by healingme4me

If you are a thread flooder, you're a polite one at that and engaging as well

Thinking about it I guess I'm OK with that It sounds like everyone else it too! I will continue what I am doing as far as being polite and engaging.

Thank you for your reply and encouragement

[lizardlady]

BonsaiGuy, I really like your posts. Please keep 'em coming.