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Old Jun 16, 2023, 03:49 PM
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I just found out again that I'm on a ignore list - anyone who knows me, knows that ignore lists are a major major trigger for me.

This is forcing me off of the forum. If someone wants to mentally ignore me that's fine, but finding out I'm on any ignore list reopens stuff that happened on a different forum.

If I leave here I will be using a different forum that I help out on, instead.
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Old Jun 16, 2023, 04:05 PM
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You need to pm a mod to ask them to close your account.
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Old Jun 16, 2023, 04:11 PM
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I blocked this site from my laptop but i cannot block it on my stupid phone
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Old Jun 16, 2023, 05:14 PM
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Dont give your power away to other people. They dont deserve it, and they dont need it or want it, and they dont even know what to do with it.

As jerry seinfelds mother said on the show, "how could anybody not like you?!"
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Old Jun 16, 2023, 07:25 PM
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Don't leave. Stand your ground. Channel those negative emotions into positive power inside you
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Old Jun 17, 2023, 06:35 AM
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The Help section is your friend:

https://mysupportforums.org/faq.php?...ni#faq_removal

The Ignore list is a self-care tool we offer our members as a means to help in their own healing process. It is not meant as some sort of "punishment" against other members, and should've be viewed as anything other than the tool it is.
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Old Jun 17, 2023, 11:15 AM
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I just found out again that I'm on a ignore list - anyone who knows me, knows that ignore lists are a major major trigger for me.

This is forcing me off of the forum. If someone wants to mentally ignore me that's fine, but finding out I'm on any ignore list reopens stuff that happened on a different forum.

If I leave here I will be using a different forum that I help out on, instead.
I hope you don't leave. You are so kind and I'll miss your posts. If you do, I hope you find a better place to be.

It's triggering to me too, as these are people I used to talk to ALL the time for years. And it's on other sites. I didn't DO anything to them. Wth?

Yeah it's a self-care tool, whether here or elsewhere but it doesn't have to be so BLUNT. It sounds accusatory. "YOU are on this person's ignore list" like "YOU have been charged with assault." It's the verbiage used.
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Old Jun 17, 2023, 12:07 PM
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We're always open to suggestions on how others might like it worded. It currently gives the following error message:

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I'm sorry, but you can't reply to this thread because you are on the member's 'Ignore List.' Please understand the ignore list is a self-care tool we provide for each members' benefit; it has no reflection on you or your value as a person.
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Old Jun 17, 2023, 01:22 PM
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Grammar poleece here - shouldn't that be either "each member's benefit" or "all members' benefit"?

Also, is it "I" or "we" apologizing and explaining?

Signed, me and the mouse in my pocket
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Old Jun 17, 2023, 02:07 PM
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I blocked this site from my laptop but i cannot block it on my stupid phone
If you have it as bookmarked site, I think you can remove it by picking "edit". Or close that window down. Clearing the browser history might help. This is on a iPhone so I don't know about Androids. I'm not too technical and am still learning stuff on my phone.
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How do we close an account?

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How do we close an account?

"Okay, enough photos. I'm a very BUSY Business Kitty, so make an appointment next time."
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Old Jun 18, 2023, 03:51 AM
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What makes it traumatic is what it got used for in 2012 when that year was already filled with bad, literally nothing good happened that year, and on the spiritual forum me and admins pet member got told to ignore each other, which i obeyed she didnt

Then she ran to the admin whos pet she was, which then resulted in that admin having several go at me for following mod instruction and that pet member kept trying to get reactions out of me so if i kept ignoring her, admin would have a major go at me, and when i tried telling her to leave me alone she ran to the same admin again and i got another massive go at me so i cant win

Everything i do is wrong so theres no point
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Old Jun 18, 2023, 05:51 AM
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We understand our members come from a great deal of varied backgrounds with different kinds of trauma they may still be dealing with, even things from over a decade ago. I'm sure some members are still processing things from even longer. I'm sorry you went through this kind of trauma and I do hope you find a place online that meets your needs better. Take care.
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Old Jun 18, 2023, 06:49 AM
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I know if my account goes, i will never be allowed back cause im not wanted
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Old Jun 18, 2023, 08:03 AM
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When a member asks for an account removal, they're welcomed back any time. We have no issues with members leaving and then returning in the future.
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Old Jun 18, 2023, 12:21 PM
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I can certainly attest to the accuracy of that!

My trauma issues have resulted in many a misstep along the way ...

I'm on about my 4th or 5th reincarnation here at MSF!

This forum has always accepted me back ...

Unconditionally & without judgment!

I seriously hope you'll reconsider leaving @willowtigger, but ...

If you do, remember that you will always be welcome here!

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Old Jun 18, 2023, 03:27 PM
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I can certainly attest to the accuracy of that!

My trauma issues have resulted in many a misstep along the way ...

I'm on about my 4th or 5th reincarnation here at MSF!

This forum has always accepted me back ...

Unconditionally & without judgment!

I seriously hope you'll reconsider leaving @willowtigger, but ...

If you do, remember that you will always be welcome here!

Willow dear you are wanted on here by me. And there's others in this thread also such as Maverick and Unaluna.
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How do we close an account?

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How do we close an account?

"Okay, enough photos. I'm a very BUSY Business Kitty, so make an appointment next time."
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Old Jun 18, 2023, 06:25 PM
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I just found out again that I'm on a ignore list - anyone who knows me, knows that ignore lists are a major major trigger for me.

This is forcing me off of the forum. If someone wants to mentally ignore me that's fine, but finding out I'm on any ignore list reopens stuff that happened on a different forum.

If I leave here I will be using a different forum that I help out on, instead.
I’m sorry that you were put on an ignored list you’ve had help me plenty of times
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Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jun 18, 2023, 06:26 PM
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I can certainly attest to the accuracy of that!

My trauma issues have resulted in many a misstep along the way ...

I'm on about my 4th or 5th reincarnation here at MSF!

This forum has always accepted me back ...

Unconditionally & without judgment!

I seriously hope you'll reconsider leaving @willowtigger, but ...

If you do, remember that you will always be welcome here!

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Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch.

Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jun 18, 2023, 06:28 PM
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Dont give your power away to other people. They dont deserve it, and they dont need it or want it, and they dont even know what to do with it.

As jerry seinfelds mother said on the show, "how could anybody not like you?!"
Great advice
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jun 18, 2023, 06:29 PM
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Don't leave. Stand your ground. Channel those negative emotions into positive power inside you
great advice
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Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch.

Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jun 18, 2023, 06:35 PM
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I know if my account goes, i will never be allowed back cause im not wanted
Aw, no, you are wanted, willowtigger. 🙏 You love cats very much which places you in the higher order of humanity, to me!😺
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Old Jun 19, 2023, 01:33 AM
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I’m sorry you were put on an ignore list willowtigger. You’ve been helpful to me and I hope you stay.
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Old Jun 19, 2023, 01:39 AM
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I can certainly attest to the accuracy of that!

My trauma issues have resulted in many a misstep along the way ...

I'm on about my 4th or 5th reincarnation here at MSF!

This forum has always accepted me back ...

Unconditionally & without judgment!

I seriously hope you'll reconsider leaving @willowtigger, but ...

If you do, remember that you will always be welcome here!


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Old Jun 19, 2023, 10:03 AM
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Aw, no, you are wanted, willowtigger. 🙏 You love cats very much which places you in the higher order of humanity, to me!😺
Ditto! My avatar confirms that. Cats rule.


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I’m sorry you were put on an ignore list willowtigger. You’ve been helpful to me and I hope you stay.
You have been kind to me, make me laugh at times, and have been validating and helpful to me as well.
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How do we close an account?

Hmmm....looks like some good tips in here.


How do we close an account?

"Okay, enough photos. I'm a very BUSY Business Kitty, so make an appointment next time."
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