[Bmee2]

what does it mean to dislike a person?
i am freaking out because my neighbor hates me. What does that mean?
Does that mean i am a bad person?
i am sorry i am so hateful....i do not know how to get along with this neighbor.
My neighbor hates me what does that mean about me?
What are we to do about her hating us?

Are we ....she does not know about that....so maybe we are evil. She would be ever so happy if i were to die. i wonder if she likes anyone? why does the supreme being keep presenting these impossible people in our life? Does the supreme being want me to quit...end our existence? Does not the Supreme being know how painful these individuals are to us and how much these people make old unhealed wounds bleed? Why? Does the Supreme being not like us too?

Are we that awful?

Yesterday i wanted to ignite the spark inside somehow. Today i think maybe i should not spread my anything in the world.

Supreme being does not make mistakes? So ...what are we? UNWANTED.

[Leed]

Dearheart ~ if your neighbor does not like you, it is NOT your problem -- it's your neighbors problem. Chances are you didn't do ANYTHING. This person probably would hate ANYONE who lived in your house. People like your neighbor are just unhappy, so they don't like anyone. It doesn't have one thing to do with you, so don't worry about it.

Your Higher Power isn't doing this to you. He didn't put this person there just to hate you. He doesn't do anything like that. When He gave us this world to live in, He gave it to us with no strings attached. He said "here, this is yours ~ you take care of it." And with that, He left. He does NOT step in to settle arguments. He does NOT step in to put people in certain places. He does NOT stop disasters from happening. These are all man-made things. We're on our own down here. Of COURSE you are NOT unwanted. You are NEEDED here.

This nasty neighbor is just making your life difficult. There is probably a person like that everywhere. All of us has someone close to us that drives us crazy. That doesn't mean that we're not wanted or needed.

Please don't worry about it. You are NEEDED here. Try not to let the neighbor bother you -- just ignore her and go on with your business. Maybe after you ignore her long enough, she'll stop her nastiness and go away. God bless you and take care. Hugs, Lee