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Old Apr 02, 2011, 08:15 PM
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I am feeling a little better from the antibiotics.

Yet, I woke up to a message from my oldest son's gf on Facebook. She blurted out that she did not want to be with my son and so forth.
I wrote her back and said, if he would have listened to me (about her) then he would not be in jail serving an 11 month sentence. And, that he has family to support him, and she should take off his last name on her profile if she feels this way.

I sent it and then I deleted and blocked her.

I really do not have time for her crap. I am stressed enough. Yes, my son is in prison. I am not ashamed of it. He is doing his time. And, just last week he was moved in my area so I can see him now.
I was excited somewhat. I have had trouble traveling to see him where he was at before.

In the past few months, she has posted pics of her and other guys. Put on her profile she is with a good guy.. and I never said nothing to her. I never met her.
But, I will stand by my son. Oh and she said that her last bf tried to hang himself while in prison, he is now in a coma. So, it looks like she has a past in getting involved with men and telling them in prison she is done.

I have not told my son anything about this. But, it's kinda funny how she wanted to come stay with me or for me to find her an apartment here... so, I will let her have her drama without me.

I have ME to take care of...
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Old Apr 03, 2011, 06:29 AM
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I'm proud of you. You are doing the right thing in taking care of yourself and leaving her with all the drama. Good for you!
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Old Apr 03, 2011, 08:09 AM
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Mercy!!! She sounds like a real piece of work!! I'm glad you blocked her, etc. You sure don't need her bothering you. And your son doesn't need that kind of heartache either.

Hopefully when he gets out, he'll start anew without that crazy woman making life miserable for him. He'll have enough trouble starting over as it is -- I know cause my son was in prison too, and it's not easy.

God bless and you and your son are in my prayers. Take care. Hugs, Lee
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Old Apr 03, 2011, 11:56 AM
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TinaL, good for making a stand and shutting out the girlfriend. Hopefully she will take the hint and leave you and your son in peace. I'm glad you are sticking by your son and supporting him. I wish the best for you.
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