[shortandcute]

How do you deal with financial crises that you can't do anything about? I am in a financial crises that I am powerless over rite now. I want to trust God, and logically, I know that helps, but I can't get over feeling anxious, depressed and suicidal. How do I deal with these feelings and my situation while my finances (or lack of them) are screwed up?

[Open Eyes]

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That is a question that is being asked all over the world. I ask that question myself and I do struggle. I know it irritates my condition as well and it is a very "real" stressor. First of all, know your not alone in your struggle and that it can be a major cause for a sense of personal failure. So many people are struggling and are challenged every day. It is different for each of us and a lot depends on your personal situation. One place you can call is a finacial counceling service if your in debt and cannot pay your bills. You have to see where you can possibly find some kind of assistance.

None of us are financial advisors however many here are struggling in that department. You have to try your best one day at a time and look for every possible way to survive through these hard times. I am thinking all the time about that in the back of my mind. I have sold things in my home, gone without, try not to go out if I dont have to to save on gas, I turn the heat down and wear warmer clothes. It isn't easy.

It snowed here last night and that makes it harder for me to do my chores on my little farm. But my husband plows for different people so it does give him work and he does need the money. It has been slow in work for my husband who has his own business as a builder or do any job guy and he works a second job and that has been slow as well. This snow is inconvenient but it was the first time I saw his attitude lighten up because it represents an opportunity to make some money.

It is very easy to get stressed when it becomes difficult to make ends meet. Try to be as kind to yourself as possible and remind yourself that you will do the best you can.

I know it is hard.

(((((Hugs)))))
Open Eyes

[unsatisfied32]

Shortandcute

I am a single mom of four children and can very much relate to this i do work and get child support, but everything is so expensive. Everyone needs a helping hand sometimes and there are organizations in your community that maybe able help with food clothing, bills, housing, transportation sometimes you have to use resources around you to survive even if you feel guilt or shame about it like i did at first.

[MsMesuggah]

Shortandcute... there is no easy way to cope with financial problems. You really don't go into specifics but it is possible to survive and get your needs met but not always your wants...*unsatisfied32's* post refers to community help.Sometimes we get accustomed to a certain "lifestyle" when it comes to being financially secure. Then a "crisis" happens and it literally rearranges our world.

You should talk to a therapist about your feelings as well as the suicidal thoughts. Suicide is a permanent solution to a "temporary" problem ! Faith is good but have trust in yourself that you can use your talents and creativity to supplant your economic needs. For example in cooking you can eliminate a lot of convenience foods and of course "fast food" is expensive.

If your major worry is losing your roof over your head, talking to your lender and refinancing may help. Rentals by private owners may be a bit more difficult and I would suggest maybe the possibility of living with a respected family member if it is at all possible.

Without specifics it is hard to steer you in the direction which may best fit your needs.
But seeing a therapist is a MUST or your psychiatrist if you have one ! You need your mental stability to get through these tough economic times!

Best wishes !

Shalom