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Old Feb 15, 2012, 08:59 PM
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My husband had a business tip ,leave me at home.
I feel so alone .When he at home we are talking ,have a walking on park,laughing and many things we did together.
Now he is gone,my world is empty .
Are you alone tonight?
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 11:03 PM
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evas, you are on a mini-vacation from hubby. I use to enjoy some solace with the alone times; and now I am a widow...so it really does get lonely here. Sorry you are missing him so much.
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 02:46 AM
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Hi!
I am married but always alone. It is not a good marriage. I am happy you have good times with him. Try to make healthy use of the time away.
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 04:19 AM
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my boyfriend has also left this morning for a night away on a business trip, so it's just me and the kids. He said some upsetting things to me recently again when under the effects of alcohol and broke up with me, he told me it was just a glitch but now I am thinking there is more behind this trip than first stated to me, oh well...what can I do about it....the answer is nothing
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 07:07 PM
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if you're alone without kids why not go out for a while and see some of the night life
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 08:54 PM
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Yup I'm alone too. Hubby is in Las Vegas all this week and off for San Francisco all next week. We're empty nesters so Im alone with two dogs and three cats. I try to keep busy but it gets old after awhile
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Old Feb 17, 2012, 09:52 PM
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No. I have my cats. They are eating. As usual. Eating, eating, eating.
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Old Feb 17, 2012, 10:36 PM
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Sorry to hear that Kate. I hope things work out for you.

As for myself, sitting here with my cat, my laptop, and The Walking Dead. :P I forgot my controller when I came home from college for the weekend, so my Xbox is worthless. :P
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Old Feb 25, 2012, 10:06 PM
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I'm always alone my Husband has his own business and is always there I thank God for that but I'm so lonley my family all have their own families including my daughter I talk to them all daily and also thankGod for them I don't drive so I am home alone all the time.
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Old Mar 06, 2012, 08:56 AM
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Being lonely is gift from God, it's his way of telling you there is something missing in your life. Relationships are not meant to keep you from being lonely. If your unable to calm yourself, self validate then you need to work on your issues not the feeling of "I'm lonely".

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Old Mar 06, 2012, 09:44 PM
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I can understand how why you feel lonely. My husband has to travel a lot for his job and I am frequently here alone for 3-4 days at a time. I would not want him to jeopardize his career and a job that he loves just to keep me company. It is just the way things are and I agreed to that when we moved here to a smaller city. I try to stay in touch as best as we can when he is away, usually he calls me but sometimes he cannot for what ever reason. It makes me treasure him when he comes home. The times of love and intimacy are all the better. Being alone is not the end of the world, for me although sometimes it feels like it. The best thing I can do is stay busy with projects or whatever. If I sit and mope about it I really get depressed and feel terrible. I think that finding some other women close by that you can talk to or share with also helps.

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Old Mar 06, 2012, 11:43 PM
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being alone does force me to deal with my issues.

Sometimes that's so painful.

I am glad you shared, evas. You are not alone, we are here.

Hope you are okay.

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Old Mar 06, 2012, 11:58 PM
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Im never alone. Two cats a dog, lots of voices. Oh and my higher power. Dont know if allowed to mention too much about that in this forum but bc of my spiritual beliefs i never feel 100% alone. :-) T wants to stop voices though :-( with medication. Also guess i never feel alone also bc have psych central. :-) sorry you feel alone. We are here for you.i might be up late bc have bad sinus / ear infection and asthma and a rash.
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Old Mar 08, 2012, 03:07 AM
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Im constantly alone.
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Old Mar 09, 2012, 05:06 PM
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I am sorry you feel alone. I feel quite alone most of the time. Especially since my fiance passed away.

I have my cat, but I hardly ever socialize anymore and I rarely go out.

If I could, though, I would definitely go out and do many things that I used to love to do. And then, I would love to share my experiences with my fiance when he returned from travel. (more to talk about )

Big hug to you. You have us, if it's any consolation!

(Stuff I am working on with my T)
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Old Mar 09, 2012, 05:07 PM
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Yes I'm alone for the weekend - my boys are staying with their dad - I hate it when they are away from home :-(
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Old Mar 09, 2012, 05:08 PM
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Yes I'm alone for the weekend - my boys are staying with their dad - I hate it when they are away from home :-(

I try to busy myself and tell myself it is a great opportunity to get the house clean and tidy.

Also I bought myself a dog and she makes it more bearable.
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Old Mar 09, 2012, 05:29 PM
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I am always alone since my partner passed away. I lost most of my friends whilst caring for him and those that stuck around dwindled away when i became too ill to do things for them!
Although alone I am not lonely, i enjoy my own company and only seek others when i need company.
being alone has great benefits, i am in control of the TV remote, eat when i want, cook what i want, and get a good night sleep with no one snoring beside me or waking me up when they need the loo, and best of all I get the whole duvet for me!
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Old Mar 09, 2012, 05:38 PM
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Yellowted i'm sorry to hear about your partner's passing. Rose, i' m sorry your fiance passed away.
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