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Dec 02, 2012, 01:55 PM
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Oh my goodness!! I'm so mad. Today, someone from another country asked me if I could lend them some money and I said no because I need the money for my family, to pay house rent and train fares. I told him that and he STILL wouldn't listen to me. I do not give my money out easily. I do not understand the situation he is in. He wants to move out but you cannot with someone's money. You need a secure job. And then he told me it's for school or a project, as he said.
 He then writes to me saying I don't trust him. Well, I need the money!!!! Well let's say I give him some money and then spends it all. He would have to keep relying on me. I'm not a rich person and I have a family to support. I buy some of the shopping for my family and I have to give my dad £20 a week. I don't give a crap if you think I'm an idiot. That's what I am anyway. And I get annoyed when people ask me out to come out to watch a film or something. I do not want to go out. I'd rather be on my own. I don't care if I have no friends. It would save me a lot of heartbreak. I'm such a crap friend. I don't mind chatting to some people but when they type to me every second, then that's when I become mad. And plus people won't regret if they're not my friend.
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Dec 02, 2012, 02:22 PM
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Hey there,
Its been a while since I saw you around here  Hmm!! I would say you are right about NOT giving this person any money. If you don't have enough money yourself then you have to think of yourself for a change. As you said you are not rich. Plus you have to pay rent and shopping. You can do things for free or on low oncome with your friends. Instead of the cinema why not a movie night in your house or 1 of your friends. You can all bring something to the night ie crisps, juice, popcorn, the film etc. I would say go for walks but it seem we are heading for winter weather and a lot of colder weather. Hope your ok? |
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Dec 02, 2012, 03:34 PM
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This person is not your friend. If it is a coworker I would tell him that if he continues to ask me for money, I would have to report him, so please stop. You are entitled to not be bothered at work. I would tell someone if possible.
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Dec 02, 2012, 05:48 PM
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Dec 02, 2012, 05:49 PM
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Dec 02, 2012, 05:52 PM
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Sounds fishy to me and like he's trying to con you happycheeks.
Tell him where to go
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Dec 02, 2012, 06:01 PM
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you need to worry about yourself. he has no right to ask you for money, and to keep asking when you already gave a reason why you can't/won't. if he is on facebook, can you block him?
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Dec 02, 2012, 06:09 PM
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He sounds like a drug addict.
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Dec 03, 2012, 09:35 AM
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Dec 03, 2012, 09:37 AM
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Dec 03, 2012, 09:40 AM
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Dec 03, 2012, 02:40 PM
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NEVER Loan money to on-line strangers!
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Dec 04, 2012, 05:31 AM
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